Well it is obvious that there are various views as to what GFE is. I find that you need to be carefull from a hobbist point a view as to what GFE is in the providers mind. I know it is forbidden to discuss services over the phone (smart), but once I arrive at a appointment, I have made it a point ask a few question, once we both have established security confidence. Most providers are okay with this it's all about your approach to the discussion, I believe in being reasonably clear with expectations(hers and mine) prior to anything going down. If the provider refuses to engage in QA than I terminate the visit. To many occassions where the adds state GFE, and quickly learn it is not my definition of GFE. i.e. upon meeting the provider she immediately stuffs your flacid equipment into a cover and before you know your out of there in 5min (lol). In my opinion that is not GFE, wich means that gfe is attitude. If the provider does not have a good attitude about her craft and does not enjoy the hobby than the effort is usless.