I'm back, explanations, apologies, and a rant.

Sins, you may not be mentioned in iso threads often, but your name has always been used in positive ways on this site. That said, I agree that your suspension was too little. I also think is in poor taste for you to mention emails or texts with an individual by screen name even if it is the admin.

To be blunt, I think you let your insecurities get in the way of your business. I also think this thread is a poor desicion. It is half apology, half attack on an admin, with a bunch of justifications everywhere. Go back to your normal posts, don't worry about the other girls, and make the guys (and girls if you like them) happy with the service you are known for.

I think it is good for many here to give you support openly, but IMHO it should be in this thread. Originally Posted by bigryan222

How disappointing. I thought you were better than this.

How disappointing. I thought you were better than this. Originally Posted by Lovely_Lilianna

I guess I would I to know what you don't like about what I said. She had a very long post and certain parts stick out that I don't like about it. Feel free to pm me.

After all, the last time I saw him, we remained on good terms. Like a trooper I once again let it go when he shorted me. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Just curious did this happen often? I'd be curious for other providers to chime in here. Do guys short you? Do they do it regularly? WHY?


And for the record, your RCG and BBBJ skills are second to none! Not to mention CG, K9, Mish, doubles...

I love me some Stacks. We've had some great chats on the phone and with God as my witness girl, the next time you are in KC, we will get together over dinner or drinks! Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

Then when you're done with the dinner and drinks I'll bring over desert for the three of us!

I must have been in limbo or somewhere else, as I was not aware of the whole suspension or the reason's why. I would imagine there are more like me who would have been ignorant of it all until this post. It will help many us make a decision (be it yes or no) if we should see the OP. I would imagine there will be more on the no side.

Just curious did this happen often? I'd be curious for other providers to chime in here. Do guys short you? Do they do it regularly? WHY?


And for the record, your RCG and BBBJ skills are second to none! Not to mention CG, K9, Mish, doubles... Originally Posted by love2fishfork

And that's why I won't see the ones that have done it and about 4 or 5 clients from here have done it and they use power of knowledge to TRY and get away with it, but as soon as I see I was shorted I call the and they come up with a bs excuse like o I thought you were running a special and a whole lot of other bs.. Ex- military, mods, not reading our show cases and that's a few to name many so I put them in my phone under do not see.......... O and NCNS there's so many from here its crazy, but if us as providers do that we get a bad review for doing so.
Any way many wishes to you sins of flesh I wish you nothing, but the best honey.

XoXo,
Lindsay 816- 507-5820

Oh and by the way, does anyone know if there is some sort of award for longest post ever? I'm pretty sure I might be a contender. Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

I thought only the guys were concerned with the length of their post. LOL Good to have you back.

I think the Bravo channel or similar should make a reality show about this community. Real Men and Women of Eccie............stay tuned for the next jaw dropping, asinine exchange into the world of hobby sex........I am sure it would rival the Jerry Springer show.

This thread has opened can of worms. On one hand you say you don't have WKs...which is very good and I'm happy for that, on the other hand you are revealing what has happened in Mens Room,even after disabling your account...only 'You' can answer that if 'You' don't have WKs.

As 'Johnny4455' and others said..this doesn't look like an "apology thread. Sounds more like excuses and accusations thread". Looks like you are giving more advertising to the thread (and other providers in that one you have mentioned) now than before. Hijacking threads is not a good thing. I'll try my best to avoid such.

Anyhow past is past and lets move on. Stacy I wish you good luck and "Sunny days wouldn't be so special, if it wasn't for rain and joy wouldn't feel so good, if it wasn't for pain"

:h orse:

Actually I've never seen Sins.

I think she mentioned inher OP that she had received "several emails from throw away addresses" that gave her the info about the secret place and what was going on in there now that she's not in there.


As for me:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=34ag4nkSh7Q

In my opinion, it's not an apology unless it is limited to what you did wrong, an acknowledgement it was wrong, an apology to those you offended and a promise to try not to repeat. One paragraph. It can be compelling if done like that. Sins you didn't truly apologize because you added justifications, excuses and attacks. Your good friends are going to support you but how about those on the board that don't know you. What do you think they take from your long non apology, apology?

I thought only the guys were concerned with the length of their post. LOL Good to have you back. Originally Posted by TaylorBliss

I resemble that remark!!!!!

I understand we have a couple of very serious and totally independent subjects going on right now.

And Modda's honeymoon period has expired

And I am really not trying to belittle anyone's feelings or positions, right now

But no one has died, no one has been put into the hospital...and despite all the discussion, no one's career/business has been peramently derailed...remember we are guys, once we start thinking with our little head...our attention/memory span is about 5 seconds

So of course, everyone is feel to vent

But let's learn from our mistakes but don't get too carry away with some of this stuff

Hey Stacy,

I was out of the loop on all of this and this is related to your situation but not in direct relation to it. I will start by saying that I do not have access to the men's lounge but have known providers in the past or heard them say later that they have had it.

I have told clients this face to face as well as mods and I will say it here. I know it is not a popular view....

Many of the men on here are business owners. If they could pay $XX (I don't even know what it is, but know that it is reasonable) per month to hear what was being said about their business...even though it was against the rules of a hobby board...most would do so in a heart beat.

You can argue ethics with me if you like....I've taken several courses and this is my conclusion. I MUCH prefer TER's lay out and I think that it is what it is...if there are areas that a companion needs to improve on, then she should be allowed to know that. Why criticize someone without giving them the opportunity to improve? Isn't it actually a kinder act to allow them to step it up?

Although my TER rankings are stellar, there has been time that I have been given a lower number and it has made me reflect on the appt. How I looked that day? How much time I put into preparation? How was my attitude and behavior? It has made me want to STEP IT UP, because my reputation means a lot to me. This hobby doesn't come with a training guide after all.

Anyway, yes it's against the rules...do I think that Stacy did anything that at least 50%, very least, of business owners would do (in a business that relies so heavily on hearsay)...HELL NO!!!!

I am not encouraging anyone to break the rules, I just think it's a stupid rule...and as I said, I do not have access nor personally know anyone, at this time, who does. I am simply pointing out the obvious.

You want us to act like professionals...so don't be shocked when we do.

Have a great week everyone!

Ari

Hey Stacy,

I was out of the loop on all of this and this is related to your situation but not in direct relation to it. I will start by saying that I do not have access to the men's lounge but have known providers in the past or heard them say later that they have had it.

I have told clients this face to face as well as mods and I will say it here. I know it is not a popular view....

Many of the men on here are business owners. If they could pay $XX (I don't even know what it is, but know that it is reasonable) per month to hear what was being said about their business...even though it was against the rules of a hobby board...most would do so in a heart beat.

You can argue ethics with me if you like....I've taken several courses and this is my conclusion. I MUCH prefer TER's lay out and I think that it is what it is...if there are areas that a companion needs to improve on, then she should be allowed to know that. Why criticize someone without giving them the opportunity to improve? Isn't it actually a kinder act to allow them to step it up?

Although my TER rankings are stellar, there has been time that I have been given a lower number and it has made me reflect on the appt. How I looked that day? How much time I put into preparation? How was my attitude and behavior? It has made me want to STEP IT UP, because my reputation means a lot to me. This hobby doesn't come with a training guide after all.

Anyway, yes it's against the rules...do I think that Stacy did anything that at least 50%, very least, of business owners would do (in a business that relies so heavily on hearsay)...HELL NO!!!!

I am not encouraging anyone to break the rules, I just think it's a stupid rule...and as I said, I do not have access nor personally know anyone, at this time, who does. I am simply pointing out the obvious.

You want us to act like professionals...so don't be shocked when we do.

Have a great week everyone!

Ari Originally Posted by Ari816

Well said.

Stupid rule? Sure, let's go with that, and give all us guys access to the Powder Room too.