Help save my marriage please

If she is not satisfying you after just 5 years of marriage, you are going to be miserable after 10 years.

Bail out while the gettin is good. Originally Posted by gameloading

1. If this is REALLY true, i.e. you have tried everything, been faithful until recently and all of the other Oprah stuff - this is great advice.

2. If you are an insatiable horndog, not so much.

3. Define "why" you want to save your marriage. If it's merely financial - drop back and punt.

4. Understand that you will be surrendering, handing her all of the keys and will need to learn proper technique when walking on eggs, which will be 100% of the time for a long, long time.

5. You will need to develop a hobby that you can do while around the house - under supervision. Woodworking, model building, arts and crafts or restoring old cars and trucks come quickly to mind.

6. Give up drinking because the "I was effed-up drunk while out with the guys at a strip club and that bitch had it out and was rubbing in on her nasty clamtrap before I even realized it" defense will require it.

Here's a curve ball! A while back there was a posted about a member getting chlamydia, looking at his reviews and the reviews in this case I found 1 and only 1 provider in common . I wanted to take it a step further & looked at the threats about guys getting something. I was very surprise to find out this provider was review by most of them. I don't know if she is passing things to guys or if this is just a big coincidence but it looks very suspicious .

Here's the deal......Chylamadia is cureable by taking four small little pills. My ex husband had Chy when we met and that was back when the state made you take an std test before marriage. The Dr prescribed him four little antibiotic pills that had to be taken at the same time, and abstain from having sex with ANYONE for 2-3 weeks. I know you don't want to tell your wife and possibly ruin your marriage, but she HAS to be told. Chy is called the silent killer for a reason. Over time, it causes Sterility in both men AND women. I don't know how old she is, or if she has or wants kids in the future, but you are possibly taking that choice away from her and that is not right. You screwed up.....you couldn't stay faithful and in this business that's the norm. We deal with it and move on, but she should not have to pay for YOUR indescretions.

Take it from me, a wife of 7 yrs, whose husband cheated on with 10 women in those 7 years. It is better to know and go forward from this day on, than to not know, and god forbid you wind up bringing home something Ajax won't wash off. Tell her honey, it's the RIGHT thing to do.

No haters or bashers please..........I was speaking from experience and I stated my OPINION!! ALL OF YOU KNOW IF YOU WERE HIS WIFE, YOU WOULD WANT TO KNOW!!!

Here's the deal...... You screwed up.....you couldn't stay faithful and in this business that's the norm. We deal with it and move on, but she should not have to pay for YOUR indescretions. Originally Posted by Sweet Taffy

I agree completely Sweet Taffy!!! (see my earlier post)....Man up, take your meds, then take your MEDICINE with wifey.

Here's a curve ball! A while back there was a posted about a member getting chlamydia, looking at his reviews and the reviews in this case I found 1 and only 1 provider in common . I wanted to take it a step further & looked at the threats about guys getting something. I was very surprise to find out this provider was review by most of them. I don't know if she is passing things to guys or if this is just a big coincidence but it looks very suspicious . Originally Posted by Itrain

Itrain, I sent you a PM earlier inquiring about this 'provider in common' due to the sensitivity of this situation and I DID NOT APPRECIATE you cropping your response into my original PM to you...I would assume someone who has been on this board as long as yourself knows better than that and how to use the system.