I need an input on this... "How to catch and keep a man". Whats the secret?

tbone2u......! It's you that I am trying to catch! You are hard to catch and contain! But... awwwhhh. Thank you, tbone2u! Marry ME! (JK)
Linn has a good heart. If she wants a guy she will probably catch him no problem. Originally Posted by tbone2u
I love how guys talk...the things that come out of their mouth. Too fucking funny !!!! lmao This was a good topic/thread my love Linn....
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tbone2u......! It's you that I am trying to catch! You are hard to catch and contain! But... awwwhhh. Thank you, tbone2u! Marry ME! (JK) Originally Posted by Linn of Houston
You're telling me......I've been trying to get some lunch with this stud but no dice!

On another note Lin that booty is catch me!
You're telling me......I've been trying to get some lunch with this stud but no dice!

On another note Lin that booty is catch me! Originally Posted by mojojo213

THAT'S TOO FUNNY mojojo213!

(you and the booty obsession... jk)
That beautiful little ass is a man trap - it'll catch one every time. The question is Hottie, "do you catch and release or catch and keep?"
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  • 12-30-2012, 07:26 AM
i would say, if sex is the only thing you got to try to keep a man, then you will lose him.

Just to chime in a bit, i think to keep a man requires skills that providers typically use on all men who become regulars. Talk to him, seduce the guy (flirt), be intelligent and have intelligent conversations, pamper him, Make him feel like this is as good as it gets and even when it is not, it is given with so much love that he appreciates you, and yeah, as others have said, always keep him interested by maintaining that mystery around you, ofcourse some guyz like predictability and mystery might not work for them.

I have a rule, it goes, sex(i mean give it to him good), food(learn the art of feeding a man) and peace(don't nag and police him, always communicate in the correct way) are what a man needs, provide all three in sufficient quantities and he will stay.

In short, one answer does not fit, but the same skills you use as a provider to keep guyz interested in you, are the same ones you need to keep a man.
Respect him always.
Get in shape and stay in shape. It's not that hard.
Be available sexually consistently.
Don't waste his money.
Keep his home life as drama free as possible.
Don't try to change him.
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Wait...I'm married??? When the hell did this happen?

Oh wait... Originally Posted by Wakeuр
The fact that you forgot you are married, means she doing her job.

That Late Great Philosopher Patrice O'Neal said it best:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H4S2tgih3Zs
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Catch- be intriguing, don't always be available to him, keep a bit of mystery about yourself.... Sex, sex, and more sex...

Keep- Blowjobs throughout the day, don't let yourself get fat, don't get complacent enough to let yourself go, don't constantly nag or bitch, don't get jealous, wear lingerie around the house.. A lot, get in his mind to find out exactly what his weaknesses are, be supportive, don't be a cunt all the time, and again sex, sex, and more sex

Just my 2p...

Oh, and let him have the ass.. Originally Posted by Valerie
Val is really close here. Let me add a couple of things that will put it over the top.
Table shower and back rub
Keep the house clean
Feed your man some good food
Dont stop giving him sex to get even with him when you are mad.


So Val you are only a part time cunt then.

Good luck to all in the new year.
Three words, Steak and Blow jobs. If a woman will fix good juicy steaks and other good food from time to time and also give good deep blowjobs with no quit, no spit. then they can keep a man forever.

Yes, it really is that simple.

PS> Ok you also have to not be a nagging bitch.
use and abuse his penis.

drain him until he cant cum no more

and cook for him and dont argue for stupid crap.

if you do this, then you my lady will keep a man
Respect him always.
Get in shape and stay in shape. It's not that hard.
Be available sexually consistently.
Don't waste his money.
Keep his home life as drama free as possible.
Don't try to change him. Originally Posted by Rickster17
Rickster is pretty spot on with the keep part. With regards to the catch, listen to a guy long enough for him to get past his nervousness and pick up BS that we all try and be patient for their personality to surface, then evaluate if he is for you, a long winded way to say show respect early, and then continue to show respect throughout.

Or read how Lisa caught and kept Neil in "The Game"
That beautiful little ass is a man trap - it'll catch one every time. The question is Hottie, "do you catch and release or catch and keep?" Originally Posted by ManFourWomen

That is not a question for me... But if you want me to answer it? I would say BOTH! I know I can CATCH and I can Release and/or Keep a man. Its also depending on the man's perspective point. Whichever he prefers. I'm a big believer of FREEDOM and Happiness! Although, if I settle down. I am a one man woman. I just hope that he can keep up with me in the bedroom! LOL
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I'm just a believer of hittin that ass Linn!
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I distinctly remember the handjob!! Holy shit that was a way to keep a man if i ever saw one lol......