To CIM or not to CIM ... lol

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doesn't matter to me, but it seems like stating one way or the other makes sense. it might help avoid a salty surprise, because there are dudes who aren't gentlemanly enough to yell "fore" prior to letting loose. Originally Posted by john_deere

I've been told I taste sweet
Cim leaves nothing to clean up plus the guys luv it.... Originally Posted by candee_coated
Probably every guy likes CIM, but despite the comments here not every guy wants to see a woman that offers it up on a frequent basis. Originally Posted by TinMan
I don't care for CIM. I know i am truly the minority on this one
Ditto..love CIM...damn near a deal breaker if not on the menu ...and NQNS moves them to the top!
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  • b2pop
  • 01-12-2013, 12:37 PM
It's almost unanimous CIM in a review is a POSITIVE for providers!!!! Myself I love it when a provider let's me CIMNQNS and the provider looks at me and says "that is fucking HOTT". Guess who that was? Anyway it made me instantly want to please her even more!!! After my legs quite trembling. I will say it is not a deal breaker if the provider does not do CIM, but it definitely is a plus.
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  • shlub
  • 01-12-2013, 03:26 PM
For me, it's about the continuous and uninterrupted sensation. Switching the method and level of stimulus right before the finale is a good way to ensure that I won't be back.

As for where it ends up... I could care less as long as the IOP is not broken. Two of the most talented oral artisans I know are NQBS.
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CIM is a huge turn-on.

I just wish every lady offered it as part of her provider services.
i need to try this, never have with a provider.
The only thing better than CIM is NQNS.

The only thing worse is if a provider lists this in her activities but does not actually do it.
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CIM is hottt and when the provider requests CIM, that is very hottttt. When she requests swallowing, that is the hottest. When I read a review that says the provider couldnt wait to swallow, that is a must see
CIM is great, no CIM is fine and can be great, too.

CIM, run to the bathroom and spit it out so fast it makes me feel like I taste like shit ... well you tell me whether you think a guy would like to read that. If you're going to do CIM then find a way to not kill the IOP.

Gianna (god she was cute) used to dribble it back out on my d* and sort of play with it. No swallow, but sexy as hell. There's a young lady I'm seeing right now who asks me to do it. Says it feels great. Wants me to do it, and waits for me to be all done. But when I'm done, she races to the sink and spits like its atomic waste. Result = I don't want to finish that way because, as much as she SAYS she doesn't dislike it, her actions tell me a different story.
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Coming from a provider who does not do CIM unless the gentleman is staying 2 or more hours (i do this because i do not frown upon CIM, but i feel it is something a little more special and intimate & i don't want to be just letting anybody CIM me , i figured, and my figurations were right, when i set it at that bar i have only CIM'd 2 guys in a year)... , i say ladies it is about whether you are comfortable with it or not... you dont wanna start having regrets, and with reviews set in stone, you have to really try to keep it consistent cause the YMMV badge is not a good one i believe.

If you are comfortable doing it, then i would suggest you do it because it is one more thing to put on your menu, like a restaurant the more things on the menu the more broad of a customer base you will have to reach. I am postive that doing CIM or not is not going to make a difference on your business, what always counts most is the overall service. && most importantly, You will never EVER be able to please everybody.

CIM is not a deal breaker for me. It feels good, but he'll so does shooting a load on her stomach or boobs.lol Originally Posted by MasterBaiter1996
I love being able to see the after-math and just how much was released.
Plus on top of that... i rarely finish sessions with a bj... i thought most guys finished in cfs anyways, i mean i havent run into too many guys who could hit a couple of positions with me and not release from that. Unless you are telling the provider to intentionally stop take off the cover just so u can CIM her...

I am going to go contrarian here, and say that not only do I think it feels better to cum when free from the confines of the wonderful orafice that got me to that point, but I think, somewhat hypocritacally as a love DATY, etc, that in the hobby world, the fewer bodily fluids exchanged the better. So for me CIM on a lot of reviews is not a plus. Just my $.02 Originally Posted by happyndallas45
This is my take as well, and logical thinking.

It IS a dealbreaker! Looks and consulting fee doesn't matter................NO CIM = NO DATE!!

If I wanted to be with a woman that doesn't really want to be there, I'd still be married! Originally Posted by Bobster36
I know that i am thrilled to be at every appointment i am fortuante to book. I think its unfair to say because a provider doesnt do CIM they are not enjoying the mans company lol... but i am sure they already know that

Do not like it. I enjoy a lot of kissing and do not want to "taste" myself....or some other dude for that matter. That being said i will daty after sex so kind of makes me a hypocrit. Originally Posted by nonfatmetal
+1 mens cum is very diffrent from womens.... for one womens cum does not have live sperm swimming around in it... and when it comes to facials... when sperm gets in your eyes it makes them very very irritated and red for a few hours... I just dont feel comfprtable with a strangers cum irritating my eyes...

Personally,I prefer it...almost ranks as high as Greek (without the up charge ). However, if the lady is total GFE (sensual n passionate), I can overlook it. My 2 cents worth.

As always! I thank u ladies profusely for being unselfish n bringing a piece of heaven to my miserable live in hell. You all rock!!! Originally Posted by hotamale
Why thank you I know that i defintley make up for CIM in the ovar all genuine care and appretiation i have for a client whom has choosen to see me.

Do you like it when a guy is going down on you and pulls away, stops the licking and swirling of his tongue on your clit just as you're about to cum and rubs you to orgasm instead? Originally Posted by TexasDave555
I can understand your point... but once again women and men are two different species (and yes i know we are the same species) our cum is pure and should be nearly tasteless give the provider is clean as a whistle.... mens cum has a dull taste to it like have you ever put a penny in your mouth when u were a kid... plus it has live sperm swimming it in... sounds like alot more to swallow... plus unless you are with a girl who squirts you are going to get much cum in your mouth unless you are intentionally lapping it up lol

Probably every guy likes CIM, but despite the comments here not every guy wants to see a woman that offers it up on a frequent basis. Originally Posted by TinMan
+1
Touche

CIM is great, no CIM is fine and can be great, too.

CIM, run to the bathroom and spit it out so fast it makes me feel like I taste like shit ... well you tell me whether you think a guy would like to read that. If you're going to do CIM then find a way to not kill the IOP.

Gianna (god she was cute) used to dribble it back out on my d* and sort of play with it. No swallow, but sexy as hell. There's a young lady I'm seeing right now who asks me to do it. Says it feels great. Wants me to do it, and waits for me to be all done. But when I'm done, she races to the sink and spits like its atomic waste. Result = I don't want to finish that way because, as much as she SAYS she doesn't dislike it, her actions tell me a different story. Originally Posted by GoAheadMkMyDay
You cant possibly be mad at the girl for spitting it out hun... mens cum no matter how much you want to it taste like fruity pebbles... it doesnt. And on top of that even if it did, the poor girl may not have a problem with catching your cum at all, but swallowing is another story... maybe she is thinking about all the live little tadpoles swimming in her mouth and is afraid they will hatch in her belly...
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Well we all know it's "to each his/her own" on this subject, but for me it is a definite turn-on and a "CIM Girl" will get a callback and/or future consideration much faster than a spitter, or a CBJ "Safety Girl". It's about the fantasy and illusion, and a CIM girl is usually much more congenial and passionate than her counterparts, and that's the REAL difference for most men...

....to the ladies reading this-- please, please, please don't do anything you feel uncomfortable doing. Your disgust will come through in your performance, and the clients will pick up on it, and ultimately make your "sacrifice" pointless as you're forced to defend yourselves against a lukewarm review...just do what makes you comfortable, be clear about what is and isn't on the menu, and let the guys decide for themselves whether they want to see you or not....
BBBJNQNS is the equivalent of BBFS. Why no one seems to comprehend this is beyond me.

BBBJCIM is still high risk exposure, especially if u have any tissue integrity issues like a recent burn from hot pizza or cut gums from dental floss, but their bodily fluid isn't entering and remaining in your body so ur not at risk as much.

BBBJ is still risky but on the very low end. Biggest worries with bbbj are oral std strains of herpes, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.

Safest is cbj but that pretty much puts a girl out of business from what I've read so it kinda defeats the purpose.

I say if ur doing it right, cim isnt that big a deal bc his mind should already be blown away by everything preceding the release.

Great thread!!
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...........I say if ur doing it right, cim isnt that big a deal bc his mind should already be blown away by everything preceding the release. Originally Posted by thathottnurse
I say you are 100% correct Hot Nurse!
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Not a deal breaker, but a provider who will ask for it in her mouth will always get a repeat visit from me.