NBA....I just don't get it.

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to reverse the scenario, after proper screening and a telephone conversation, a visit time is arranged. there has been no indication of ethnicity. the guest arrives at the time and place agreed upon, you open the door to find that the guest is mixed, half white and half black. How should this situation be handled?

This can very easily happen, even to a NBA provider, I am curious how some one NBA would handle this.

Do you check the peep hole and just not answer, or open the door with a look of shock on your face and then ask them to leave?

Also, does an NBA provider also refuse guests of Asian, Latino, Indian, Middle Eastern ethnicity as well? And if the gent screens well and his name is Bob, How do you know before hand that his grandmother on his dads side is asian and on his moms side from Sri Lanka?
This is a culturally diverse nation, anything is possible.

How about adding family history to a screening questionnaire, "Okay sir, I will need to know your genealogy back 3 generations"

I understand that this is an exaggeration, and that I am taking this just a little to far to make the point.

A gentleman can come from any heritage, and the exposure to can make for very interesting conversation, I take it as an opportunity to learn about different cultures.
to reverse the scenario, after proper screening and a telephone conversation, a visit time is arranged. there has been no indication of ethnicity. the guest arrives at the time and place agreed upon, you open the door to find that the guest is mixed, half white and half black. How should this situation be handled?

This can very easily happen, even to a NBA provider, I am curious how some one NBA would handle this.

Do you check the peep hole and just not answer, or open the door with a look of shock on your face and then ask them to leave?

Also, does an NBA provider also refuse guests of Asian, Latino, Indian, Middle Eastern ethnicity as well? And if the gent screens well and his name is Bob, How do you know before hand that his grandmother on his dads side is asian and on his moms side from Sri Lanka?
This is a culturally diverse nation, anything is possible.

How about adding family history to a screening questionnaire, "Okay sir, I will need to know your genealogy back 3 generations"

I understand that this is an exaggeration, and that I am taking this just a little to far to make the point.

A gentleman can come from any heritage, and the exposure to can make for very interesting conversation, I take it as an opportunity to learn about different cultures. Originally Posted by Zada Knight

This IS the dead horse.. still trying to say its about skin color.. its about the safety odds of the industry and like it or not, you are 10 times more likely to be assaulted in this business by an AA male. Oh sure you can verify the guy with another provider, but then again, most of the AA males who will be a problem are pimps who have a few girls that will verify them because they are pimping them. so someone qualified has to take the plunge at least once and risk assault to find out, which one of you wants to line up for that? You Zada? because we are more than happy to forward you all of their calls so you can take the risk, would you like those numbers in pdf format? Yall sit here and throw stones but I will bet you aren't taking every Boo that hits you up for some booty skins. You still verify them and if they don't have credible or known references you don't see them.. is it a black thing? nope its a safety thing. One AA male eccie member who keeps bitching about it keeps changing his number so how the hell is anyone supposed to know hes the same safe guy??

Everyone knows the Elves have select AA clients, but anyone saying here that a provider should feel obligated JUST because a man is AA so she doesn't catch hell is kinda rude. That being said.. If any of you all knowing all loving providers wishes to start taking all the unverified black gents and provide the rest of us with a nice list of safe AA males I am sure we will all be happy to cater to them.. So who wants to take the chance??

The Racism bs is retarded, for the second time the majority of America chose a Black guy over a White guy as leader of the free world, so fact is, racism is now a Black on White crime if we go by the age old creedo of numbers against numbers, get over it. When over 51% of anyone says yes to something, they don't have the right to still claim they are being persecuted.
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Zada's post is hilarious ..especially because i fall into one of her mentioned categories....never had any problems even with nba providers ..
GFE, Thank you for your response, even though it seemed to be off topic from the hypothetical scenario.

As much as I appreciate your offer to send a list of phone numbers that belong to people that did not quite pass your screening requirements, Im sure that your current gents that did make the cut, would not appreciate the idea of your willingness to offer up private info so quickly without their permission. Please remember this is a public forum. That could reflect poorly on your privacy ethics.

There is only a handful of agencies that I would consider credible for referral, and I do apologize, but your agency is not one of them.
Would you care to share your ethnicity Brownfish, other than not American?
There is only a handful of agencies that I would consider credible for referral, and I do apologize, but your agency is not one of them. Originally Posted by Zada Knight
Then please stop asking Ella for references then, as shes told you many times, she does not give out info to a provider unless requested by the client first to do so.
Middle School Reply... Is there a grown up near by that could take over for you? nice. Keep on keeping it professional.
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Zada : why don't you come and find out for yourself ?...
Would you care to share your ethnicity Brownfish, other than not American? Originally Posted by Zada Knight
ROFLMAO!! Indiscriminate but asking? might want to check that definition darling. OMG THATS FUNNY! I wont use the word Hypocrit.. wait.. yes I will ,lol. Its ok tho I don't blame you for not seeing us as credible with only 13 pages of reviews on this site alone.. we most likely aren't qualified.. then again, where's that put you?

Don't worry darling the one thing nobody has ever accused me of is being professional, I mean geesh cmon we are just horrible cuz its on the internet and they cant put anything on the internet that's not true! How did ur date with the French model go anyways? Bonjour!
Yeah, you lost me, I did get half a chuckle out of this, not a lol, or a roflmao. I still am just at a loss of what you are talking about. Who ever you are thinking of, i dont know, you got the wrong person.

Oh wait, I get it, you are bragging.... Privacy Ethics?
Yeah, you lost me, I did get half a chuckle out of this, not a lol, or a roflmao. I still am just at a loss of what you are talking about. Who ever you are thinking of, i dont know, you got the wrong person.

Oh wait, I get it, you are bragging.... Privacy Ethics? Originally Posted by Zada Knight

OMG everyone got that!! Geesh.. State Farm tv commercial? U sure know how to ruin a good joke Zada . I also take offense to your comment about my mommas pancake ass, but ur right, I much prefer your cooter loaf hehehe can I come over again? That things like a Chalupa!
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Im skipping the movies this evening..ill stay logged on over here with my bag of popcorn..shit is getting good over here.....

No offense to anybody intended...
Im skipping the movies this evening..ill stay logged on over here with my bag of popcorn..shit is getting good over here.....

No offense to anybody intended... Originally Posted by brownfish
LOL , Oh don't mind me I am just trying to keep some fun in the damn hobby, everyone else wants to turn it into a dental visit,lol. On topic as was said right off.. DEAD HORSE BEATING.. let it be, why would anyone want to see someone that doesn't want to see them anyways?!?!

now lets get back to the fun!!

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