Irritating situation....

But, atleast bless your heart, your immediate patience may help her gain confidence and professionalism back. Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

Immediate patience. Well said Frankie. In any situation this is always a good idea.

I feel bad for the provider who got stiffed but she simply can't carry her frustration over to another client. The last thing a guy wants to deal with when seeing someone is a bad attitude. Seeing a provider who's in a bad mood is an instant mood kill. Guys who pull this crap are complete asses. She should out his sorry ass.

I don't really buy into the whole "I didn't get what I wanted......gimme a discount thing....."

When I voice a complaint, I want nothing in return other than the problem to be fixed. And, I'll probably address the issue when I choose to see her again. Or, more than likely, leave it alone. But, I'd never tell her in an e-mail...that's too cold for something as personal as hobbying is.......cripes, you girls aren't a corporation you;re people!!!!


elg..... Originally Posted by elghund

That sounds like a good plan. No one knows the dynamics of this specific provider/hobbyist relationship more than YOU. So sometimes, only you and you alone can decide the best course of action to take. It sounds to me like this was a one time thing, your a forgiving soul and willing to let a bad experience go. You really enjoy your time with her and have had other great experiences with her. So kudos to you for being understanding and seeing the big picture. I still feel that providers should try not to let one bad experience roll onto the next. But, were all just humans here and it's nice to see there are understanding gents out there. I hope your next experience with her is nothing but bliss, as it should be!!