I usually do dinner dates and there are a few of us who do (not many, but more than you think). I wish ladies would post rates for such things on their sites (not necessary in an Ad). Very few ladies do.
I am odd I know, but I actually like talking to a lady, some of them can have a conversation guys. (some can't too)
I also have no SO, so it is easier for me to do dinner dates. (hand holding is fine with me too

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