Being outed

London, I agree. I don't have many clients who are also attys, but I try to steer clear of them so that I don't get caught up as opposing counsel. The judge I saw (see) didn't need any employment screening b/c he had great refs! Ha ha. I really will have to be more careful. I wouldn't want my sexing up the judge to hurt my clients in court! Note to self: stop schtupping judges. LOL.

Happy birthday, Nina! Hope you have a great one.

In my line of work, I often run into providers and just give them a knowing grin just to save us all the awkwardness. I've only ran into one provider that I've actually dated at a gas station. We did the double take on each other but I didn't bother to bring anything up, mostly because her boyfriend was RIGHT THERE! lol

I have ran into providers that I know out in public a couple of times. Just remember the Hobby rule. What happens in the hobby stays there. I didn't walk up to them and they didn't walk up to me. Just eye contact a slight grin and move on.

I have had one experince where I was in the Quarter and ran into a provider that I had seen. I was with friends and she was too. Initally we didn't speak but when we had a chance to get apart from our friends we decided to play like we had dated in the real world in the past. We got our groups of friends together and had a great time in the quarter.

I have a funny story on this topic...and it happenned to ME!

I started in the hobby in Sept 09. The first attempt was a backpage girl, smokin hot picture, $200. I showed up and she was about 4'9" and 180 lbs...So I ran.

After that shock I decided to try an agency. I saw an ad for a girl on BP, but it was an agency running the ad. The girl looked hot, but there were no face pics. I set up a two hour lunch and fun for the next day and completed screening by email.

The girl did not show up for lunch...and after waiting for an hour, I drove home with my head held low. I got all the way home (About 20 miles), and I got a text that she had just awaken and appologising profusely. She asked if I would get a room and she would met me in 1 hour and I said WTF.

I went and got a room and textted her the room # and waited anxiosly. The knock at the door came and I opened it up to find a familiar face. This girl worked at a restaurant around the corner from my house, and the restaurant was a customer of the business that I own. I was busted for sure...right???

We sat on the bed and talked about this akward situation, and we mutually agreed not to pursue the session (She was pretty hot...but). We also agreed not to out each other.

Skip forward to April 2010. I am in a business in my town with an employee...and this girl walks in with a toddler in tow. I almost shit a brick, especially when she approached me. When went to the side out of earshot of anyone else, and she thanked me for keeping quiet. She said that she no longer was in the biz...and that her boyfriend had left her. She reached in her purse and pulled out a pen and paper and jotted down her # and said that she felt that she could trust me, and that she could use the $$, so call her sometime. I asked her about Incall or outcall etc, and she said I could come to her place. She wrote the address and it turns out she lives 2 blocks away!!

I havent called her yet...who thinks I should? Originally Posted by tigerfan225

To me it is a sign of fate. She trusts you and can be trusted. Go for it. I have ran into several providers over the years. It was only a couple of weeks ago that I was coming out of the grocery and a provider was coming in. I gave her a friendly smile and kept walking without missing a step. She was with some guy, probably her SO, so I didn't even look back.

I wish I knew where the old ASPD review was of the guy that showed up at the incall to find his exwife standing behind the door. When you read it your side will be hurting before you finish. It is one funny review.

Happy birthday, Nina! Hope you have a great one. Originally Posted by marco2007

Thank you baby! Its wasn't a bad one at all. The celebration continues!

It's happened a few times at mixed ages bars. One man walked up to me and said, "I think you may have an evil twin running around the city." I smiled and said, "Oh yeah? Maybe I'm the naughty one. Who knows?" I laughed and walked back to my friends.

Once while I was subjecting some guy to listening to me speak about Canon Law in hopes he'd leave me alone, I was being eyed by a guy who was obviously an attorney. I got nervous and started perusing the roller-dex of man memories, because I knew we'd had some involvement. Just when the suitor excused himself to use the restroom, he walked up to me and began to speak. My memories came rushing back. He was nothing more than a drunken bar make-out months before. I was relieved.

More recently, a boy I was seeing mentioned something about "reviewing me" when I joked about being an escort. quick subject change!!!

I would just prefer my family never found out, that's all.