Greetings fellow hobbyists and providers,Well, there's no legal requirement for a provider to see you. It's not like you're seeking employment or trying to buy/rent housing.
Let's put it all out there...I am a black man! I am not a pimp, not a thug, I have a legit well paying job, college educated, and I still get discriminated in the hobby! It is frustrating to get hung up on, told no, and sometimes cussed out because of the color of my skin! This is 2013 and we still have this going on???? This not only angers me but it also saddens me. I thought we have come so far... Originally Posted by jackson12345
Whether it is or isn't a choice does not justify the bigotry. Ignorance is a choice too, but I don't discriminate against you just because you're ignorant. Originally Posted by cuddlyteddybearIt's incorrect to say that Ignorance is a choice.
I've had a few guys tell me that if I wasn't Mexican or Native American Indian, they'd see me.interesting how life works, sometimes
It does work both ways.
People like who they like.....I can't fault them for it. I don't know if racism always plays a part in it though. If it does, that sucks, but racism of any type is always going to be part of our lives. Move on and find another who is willing to see you. Originally Posted by MsElena
Well, there's no legal requirement for a provider to see you. It's not like you're seeking employment or trying to buy/rent housing.While there is no legal right, it still does not make IT right to lump EVERY black guy into the same category. I'm not crying or anything about not being able to have an encounter with someone, that is there loss! I know who I am, I know what I am working with (because I aim to please and not just be pleased, and I still get mine. I am just venting about how unfair it is. This is something that I see more in the Midwest than I did in Texas. Texas providers were on a whole nother level than these Wichita/Midwest providers.
And there's no cultural component that compels a provider to see you either. A lady can decline to see you for whatever reason she wants.
Sorry, that's just the way it is.
I doubt there's really a dearth of providers that would be willing to see a client of another race. Maybe there's another reason you're getting turned down.
Best,
Noah Originally Posted by NoahScape
no I'm just saying they have the right to say no no matter what color their skin is JOHNNYOf course they have the right to discriminate on race. As you do too. My point with you has been when the op posted how it makes him feel, and asked why do Hookers discriminate, your response was 'stings doesn't it? See how us white folk feel when Obama plays the race card'.... That's a lot different than stating the obvious.. A hooker has a legal right to refuse her services to a black man.Originally Posted by gary5912
Of course they have the right to discriminate on race. As you do too. My point with you has been when the op posted how it makes him feel, and asked why do Hookers discriminate, your response was 'stings doesn't it? See how us white folk feel when Obama plays the race card'.... That's a lot different than stating the obvious.. A hooker has a legal right to refuse her services to a black man. Originally Posted by Johnny4455When has Obama used the race card and why do you keep bringing politics into what the government sees as illegal at the moment.
I'm sorry, but i have to post regarding this thread. Ok, I'm not really sorry..Lol! First off, I have to say that J12345 is a great guy!! One of the nicest, cleanest, most polite and very respectful gentleman. He always smells good and has donation placed on dresser immediately. I wish I could say this about all guys. With that being said, who gives a fuck what color someone is? The only color any 'true hoe' should care about is green. And for those of you that are naive (stupid) enough to believe when girls whine about being scared of black men trying to pimp them or be rough or rob them and this is their reason for NOT seeing them.....Well, that justs sounds stupid. Ignorance isn't even an excuse anymore. Let me help you all out. That is a fabricated story by girls with pimps. And it's so predictable that girls will use that story. Also, if you ever check any threads like this, you will hardly see any of the pimped girls responding within these threads. The girls who give their pimps access to their memberships are putting peoples' lives in danger everyday. A black man that wants to participate in the hobby is not putting lives at risk. I've seen black men in and outside of this hobby. If a provider is a real provider then she is professional, and professionals are used to every race and every type of man. This is 2013 and discriminating against people is truly played out. Time for new excuses.Thank you Gemma! You are the greatest!:-)
Anyway, this is something that always upsets me. J12345 is a sweetie, and a FUN time.
@J12345, it's their loss baby, I know what a gentleman you are. Originally Posted by Gemma34
Blade........well, I'm both.semantics is correct, a rose by any other name, etc,
I don't know if I'd see you though. You're wanting to use the term slut to define escorts. Even though the dictionary defines the word slut as a hooker, I've never heard a hobbyist call a escort a slut. Its a matter of semantics.
But, in order for you or any other hobbyist to get respect from a "slut," you must give respect. I'll treat you the way you treat me. Originally Posted by MsElena
It's incorrect to say that Ignorance is a choice.
Do you unwderstand what "ignorance" means, my friend?
ignorance means you don't know information; you lack knowledge ie
ignorant
Adjective
Would it make any sense for me to laugh at your inability to do simple math problems when you have never been taught math? no
- Lacking knowledge or awareness in general; uneducated or unsophisticated.
- Lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about something in particular: "ignorant of astronomy".
Being obese is a choice people make daily as they eat. They eat too much, this extra energy gets stored as fat. The reason they eat so much has to do with a variety of factors, which I shouldn't tease you for being ignorant of for not knowing; as it may not be common knowledge in your life, so your aren't expected to know that information.
Unlike when people teased Sweetheart,http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=689075&page=2, because she used a word incorrectly. That was information she should know, ie not be ignorant about since she is above the age of a 5th grader Originally Posted by blade78
You just showed your own ignorance, which is highlighted in red. Simply being obese doesn't come from simply eatting too much. You continue to prove just how ignorant you are daily. Originally Posted by KenMonkwhat, pray tell, did I show any ignorance about?
