A new trend among providers???

Hmmm... me thinks a rich young widow may be lurking a la Anna Nichole Smith?

I fall into that "old man" group, I guess. But one thing I've noticed is that while many providers do prefer older men for the reasons listed in this thread, I find myself searching for 40-something or even older providers. For me, they are much more attentive, more sensual and generally more loving during my visits than the younger providers. But I'm sure that's a YMMV thing with me.

We older guys don't need to prove our studliness. Hell, we're just happy to see a pretty woman naked. Anything after that is gravy. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

X2!

lmao... any of the ladies have a shirt that says you must be this old to ride this ride?

I don't state that but I have a few times long ago and some of the requests I got all stated that they contacted me simply because I did state that I enjoy older gentleman and that made them feel comfortable contacting such a young provider.
Older gents show more respect, kindness and they make for a better session.
Some but not all younger gents can be very difficult and disrespectful and very cocky.
I have even seen a younger guy and two days later he called me and wanted to stop by for a free session because he assumed he was a great lay and that he is really hot and that I would be begging for his attention. Originally Posted by guest032413

I agree to this statement and have been through the same thing. Younger guys feel like they have something to prove and by the end of the date feel like they can become your boyfriend..i prefer salt & pepper over Dr. pepper any day!

I'm older than dirt, hell, even dirt calls me "young" .... huzzah for old geezers like me !

of course they "love older men"...

Its an easier/quicker, day at the office for the ladies!

For the same reasons the Benjamin Franklin recommended young unmarried men fuck older women rather than young women:

1. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor’d with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreeable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1,000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc’d may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro’ more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin’d to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes.

5. Because in every Animal that walks upright, the Deficiency of the Fluids that fill the Muscles appears first in the highest Part. The Face first grows lank and wrinkled; then the Neck; then the Breast and Arms; the lower Parts continuing to the last as plump as ever, so that covering all above with a Basket, and regarding only what is below the Girdle, it is impossible of two Women to know an old from a young one. And as in the dark all Cats are grey, the Pleasure of corporal Enjoyment with an old Woman is at least equal, and frequently superior, every Knack being by Practice capable of Improvement.

6. Because the Sin is less. The debauching a Virgin may be her Ruin, and make her for Life unhappy.

7. Because the Compunction is less. The having made a young Girl miserable may give you frequent bitter Reflections, none of which can attend the making an old Woman happy.

8thly and Lastly. They are so grateful!!

http://www.laphamsquarterly.org/voic...lder-women.php

I fall into that "older" category and have only been in this hobby for about 3 years. During that time I have met some wonderful ladies and when I make a return visit I feel like I'm seeing a friend. Yes, I go for the pleasure, but it's important for me to know that both of us are having a good time. Part of my pleasure is knowing that she is receiving some as well. I don't know if that's a product of my age or my personality, but whatever it's origin, it's deeply built into me.

Forty is young ... for a rock.

Older gentleman are more respectful of women, have better manners and are more sensual. I'm speaking from not just my hobby experience, but also from my civilian experience. I will see a younger hobbyist provided he has manners and respect for women. I don't need young, dumb and full of cum showing up with his crazy self. Especially with the way so many young males behave these day.

Experience, confidence is sexy. When you're a young'un you are insecure about everything - and it shows

Old fucks generally can't get it up and give up after five or ten mins, so it's easy money.

Experience, confidence is sexy. When you're a young'un you are insecure about everything - and it shows Originally Posted by Zabrina Sarafina

Its really not experience and confidence, its just not caring anymore because when you get to be old you already know you are past the point of caring. Except when taint is involved then some, like me, care a lot.

Older men are a lot more polite and know how to treat a lady with respect. I have always been attracted to older men, can't remember last time I dated anyone who wasn'y at least 5years my senior. Younger men just want to play around (not all, but a lot), and me being a younger provider, I put it on my website now because I had an influx of 20 somethings with no refs or experience trying to set up a date. They play games and don't want to be screened and think that I should just throw myself at them because they are young and hot and any lady would jump at the opportunity to bang them....sorry there, started to vent a little lol. But yea like 45 year olds, ughhh there is just something about that age that makes them sooo sexy lol. I don't know, like I have siblings that are 30+ and 40+, I'm used to being around an older crowd and I'm just more comfortable around them really.

I won't set a date with anyone under 30. Some people might feel slighted, but then there are sooo many gentlemen that won't even look at a lady provider under 30 (sometimes 35) so it's whatever.