Drama Queens and Pity Parties

Ginger whats the purpose of an elaboration here .. lol.. im having a ditzy moment im so lost .. or am I not the only one who think its pretty straight forward .. Gin Please dont take this as a rude comment I just am trying to understand.

Bailey I like the way you think hunny and I Dont know ya but I like yah. Definetely hope to meet you this social coming up. Will ya be there >>>???

aye yaye yay this is a novela and im out ..

well night night everyone !!

xoxo
Lexxxi dd's Originally Posted by Secret Encounters

Thank you very much that is very nice to hear!

I would love to go to the social but, I won't be able to make it ):

I would love to go to the social but, I won't be able to make it ): Originally Posted by thatgirlbailey

That's to bad, I was hoping for the opportunity to met you!

I agree darter.....
.....Bailey ===> our next get together after this coming Monday will be the 22nd


and keeping things on track ===> drama has always been part of almost any forum I have viewed and I would suggest it always will be simply because people are just people with their personal thoughts that they believe in and feel everyone else should abide by those beliefs or else!!!

I'll say this much, and I probably won't earn many friends for it, but it's how I feel. While each person is free to post how and what they feel, I find it to come across as a HUGE fucking turnoff when those types of threADs pop up. I hobby for some no-strings-attached fun and to go and forget all of my troubles/stress for the small bit of time I'm with a lady. It gives me great pause to see a lady who fans the flames of drama and airs their dirty laundry for all to see. I would hate to pay good money to someone, then show up to have them go fucking ballistic or get all whiney and start crying, just like we've seen with increased frequency on these boards these past few weeks. I am a supportive and kind person, but I'll be damned if I'm going to pay to listen to that. Afterall, at the end of the day, we're not talking about boyfriends/girlfriends or spouses, but rather a business transaction. You can dress it up all you want, call it whatever you wish, but it boils down to one person paying another person for some service, even if it just companionship.

How would you feel if a waiter started telling you about all their hardships and crappy lives while at a restaurant? It would kind of ruin your meal and put you in a slump, as it happened to me a few weeks back. Now how would you feel if someone was a downer during your $200.00+ an hour fun time? I listen stuff like that for a living, and I'll be damned if I'm going to pay someone and risk running into that type of drama while I'm trying to have fun. We're always saying guys who post rude/insensitive shit on this board are providing the best screening tools for providers to use. Well, providers who come across with these "pity parties" and whiney attitudes do the same to discourage hobbiest, or at least this one. Just my .02....

How would you feel if a waiter started telling you about all their hardships and crappy lives while at a restaurant? It would kind of ruin your meal and put you in a slump, as it happened to me a few weeks back. Originally Posted by Marcus78

And he has never DATY since this experience...YOUR loss ladies!!!!

[QUOTE=Marcus78;1052634486]I'll say this much, and I probably won't earn many friends for it, but it's how I feel. While each person is free to post how and what they feel, I find it to come across as a HUGE fucking turnoff when those types of threADs pop up. \ It gives me great pause to see a lady who fans the flames of drama and airs their dirty laundry for all to see.

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Dont worry about not making friends by this post. It is the truth. Facebook is bad enough with the constant "me oh me" posters, Eccie shouldnt be an extension of it. Personal biz is just that. The world of the hobby isn't for Dr Phil pscychobabbe bullshit. The retention of good clients comes with a connective, enjoyable experience. Period. While I may not keep quiet about certain things, when I probably should, I never allow my sessions to be plauged by my personal life or issues with any other aspect non relevant to the nature of the business we actually ARE here for.

The IGNORE function works great!

You don't have to read the posts of those that make you miserable. Originally Posted by JJ

Can you see this? If so I guess that means I don't make you miserable... YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!