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  • lat
  • 05-17-2013, 09:46 AM
I don't cum fast. These days, 30 minutes is a quickie for me. 45 minutes can be normal for me with my GF, and that's straight sex bareback and after foreplay. Sometimes I can start with a BBBJ for 10 minutes, fuck for 20 or so, then it still takes another 10+ minutes to finish with a BBBJ. 2 pops just won't happen for me in one hour, and I'm lucky if I can get 2 in a 2 hour session.

I've had a few ladies get me off with a BBBJ in a maybe 10 minutes or so (Angel Divine ) and a few have made me feel like I could pop relatively quickly if I let them keep going, but round 2 probably wouldn't happen and I prefer full service.

For better or worse, I've dated several women who took a long time to climax during sex so I've trained myself to hold off until they do before I do. Not always a good thing with a woman who's multi-orgasmic or cums quickly. Originally Posted by pornodave69
Damm you r lucky bareback with the SO maybe 20 min. if I had a few drinks then longer but as far as my second wind I need no recovery time I don't lose my erection, but I think it's in my mind cause when I am being blowed I can't O most of the time but on the other hand bareback sex I won't last !
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Back in the day the best I could was pound for 20 minutes in one position and then it was time to change...now maybe half that if there is no BBBJ ( like Divas involved lol) then all bets are off but that's why I always take the hour because there is no way I'll be done with a lady in half an hour unless it's a BBBJ only session
But that hour stuff I say either you r dead or she is ! to go that long and don't have an O .... Originally Posted by lat
Some of the answers are skewing BF's question. But I'm not sure there was a claim that no O was achieved.

But I do believe that brownfish should now believe that not everyone is done in 10 minutes and one shot.

I'll also comment back specifically to one of the questions about k9 for 60 minutes. I can enjoy k9 for about 30 minutes (although not all of it POUNDING), But after about 20 minutes...I can't walk after. I guess lack of circulation in my knees takes all the strength and coordination out of my legs. So I'd rather fall back and relax a few than have to walk away for something like clean up. I'd prefer to limit K9 and most any position except something relaxing and sensual to 10 to 15 minutes.

I've seen several ladies and gf's when young plus the SO that can easily go 30 in K9 if they stack up some pillows and get comfy. I think if there was a poll K9 would be the ladies favorite.
...that's why I always take the hour because there is no way I'll be done with a lady in half an hour unless it's a BBBJ only session Originally Posted by TiCobra
I can relate and agree. I have noticed a different strategy from the guy with the frog avatar and 100+ reviews. His trend is low cost, one shot, 30 minute sessions and more of them I presume.

I tried that this week for a quickie introduction and finished the session with more desire than when I started. It was not satisfying for me to just quit in the middle of something so awesome....even after a nice O. Anyway, I'll finish with her on another day. Review to follow...its the next one in the queue.
Providers can't see ROS but here is a nice review from Houston where the guy pays extra for photos and videos then notes his performance in each pose by the video counter. I know ROS is private but the few snippets below are benign and I didn't post a link to the review. I think its funny but cool at the same time LOL.

20 some odd minutes of that
According to the video time counter, we did this for about 30 minutes
I feasted on it for over 21 minutes non-stop, according to the video time counter

I'll just note for any video with SknyDiva, a camera man would be required to keep the camera on the action.
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I have to agree with a few of the ladies! I have had a few that were capable but unhappy about it because most of the time they cant ever reach the O!
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GS---- Did you tell ALL our secrets in the ROS?!?!
GS---- Did you tell ALL our secrets in the ROS?!?! Originally Posted by TifanyR
No way...kept the good ones to myself.
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HMMMM!!! Everyone trying to get me drunk since that review hit the boards!!
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... I have noticed a different strategy from the guy with the frog avatar and 100+ reviews. His trend is low cost, one shot, 30 minute sessions and more of them I presume.

I tried that this week for a quickie introduction and finished the session with more desire than when I started. It was not satisfying for me to just quit in the middle of something so awesome....even after a nice O. Anyway, I'll finish with her on another day. Review to follow...its the next one in the queue. Originally Posted by GlobeSpotter
He & I have similar styles. I like one-shot, quick, low-cost. The reason is b/c I'm old & crappy--I have the worst of both worlds, y'all: if not careful, I NORMALLY achieve orgasm pretty easily (like in 5 mins. w/a good bbbj), but there is no way I can repeat. MAYBE at the very end of a 2-hr. session if I came in the first 15 mins. of the session, but I wouldn't bet on it then. So: I come fast, but can't repeat--like I said, the worst combination, which is why I rarely spend more than 30 mins. in an initial session w/someone. If I have a good time, I'll stay longer next time. I've done that before & it works for me (I'm not saying there aren't exceptions to the rule--Lovely Lolita, Nakia, etc. were longer for a first meeting).

On occasion, being old-and-shitty as I believe I've already made note of, it takes me awhile to get off, but hardly ever longer than a 30 min. session would take. I'm also w/some of y'all about positions: sometimes I get awful tired in K9, even though it's my favorite. Sometimes I last a LONG time in K9 & it's fine. Other times I come to a session more physically fatigued than I realize--fortunately last time I got too tired in K9 she was adaptable AND sweet (I've been w/plenty who would say, "You're tired? Tough shit--that's YOUR problem."), said, "You let ME do the work now--relax." and proceeded to make me very comfortable & very happy all at once.

When I book an hour, it's b/c I like all the showering & kissing before & showering & cat-napping after... Oh & some cat-napping. And if you visit Lovely Lolita, a snack (Home-girl MADE ME LUNCH! Some women are just too good...). W/maybe a cat-nap.
Old Horn Dog.....we had no idea you were old. Next your gonna tell us you're horny too.

We appreciate your posts. Next time, tell LL you want to take some video like the guy here in Houston LOL.
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Why... how EVER did you guess that, on occasion, in addition to being old, barring any other considerations & distractions, that I might become a tiny bit horny? Wow, I'll have to work on my poker face... Does everyone know or are the people on THIS thread particularly perceptive? I just don't know what could've given it away.

And dude really: who gives a shit about VIDEO? Did you miss the part where this angelic creature MADE ME LUNCH @ the end of the appointment?!?! THERE WAS FOOD. She's a keeper...
Ahhh OHD I saw the part about the lunch. Food doesn't get past me. My two biggest weaknesses are food and girls...not always in that order LOL.
If I were you, instead of video...take a pic of what she served and put it as her avatar in your phone. That way, when she calls you, immediately your mouth will start watering. I'm not sure those feelings can be beat...oh, wait....maybe they can...but its a good start LOL.
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She made him a fucking sammich globespotter
That is to a man a goddess like quality.
Just saying. He did repeat himself a few times
And I quote " old and shitty"
However long you choose! We are all happy
To accommodate. What was the question again?
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Oops he said crappy! My mistake y'all