Since when did eccie become a dating site?

Rockerrick...I am taken lady in my pvt life over 3years .

I completely get what everyone is saying. I find it ironic that a lot of ladies post on their website that " any compensation is for the escorts time only and not for any sexual activity." If that time is not to be spent for sexual activity and not to be spent for social activities, I guess that leaves scrabble, arm wrestling and poetry reading.

I think the OP is making a big deal out of nothing. If you don't like it, then just ignore them. Besides, it works both ways. I have seen posts by providers who say they want to go out and have a drink or just meet somewhere just to be social.

Kinda why I asked Foxy Very normal response !
I really do want you babe . lol

Rockerrick...I was single for a long time but now I am not for about 3years and going strong and not going any where until he pass away....

Oooooh What a Lucky Man he ......... is

I see ladies outside of the hobby and it is really nice. We have dinner or a movie or both. just remember they are real people too.
fisherman6944

I don't see what the big deal is. If a hobbyist wants to ask a provider to dinner and a movie or drinks, what's the big deal. She really should be flattered. This site is all about filling a need. Sometimes that need is not just the BCD activities.

Men should treat women will respect and kindness. Whether they are a provider or not. I have always tried to be respectful to women. Even if during the session I want to talk a little dirty talk and call them my little whore or something like that I try to make sure afterwords or even before that its just a fantasy to play like that. That k don't really think that.

I guess I just don't get why it would bother a provider to be asked out. As long as the guy doesn't expect anything off the clock. He should always assume that he will compensate the lady for her time. If a provider decides that she doesn't want to charge him for these other activities, that is completely her choice and she should not be judged for it one way or the other.

If you are asked and you don't want to, just politely smile and tell them no. Guys, if they say no, don't be offended. Just understand that they have lives too and maybe they need separation between the hobby and the real world just like you do.

I am married so I would not want to be seen in public on a "date" but if I weren't married I would be more than happy to have one of these lovely ladies on my arm for a night.

Just my thoughts.

I don't see what the big deal is. If a hobbyist wants to ask a provider to dinner and a movie or drinks, what's the big deal. She really should be flattered. This site is all about filling a need. Sometimes that need is not just the BCD activities.

Men should treat women will respect and kindness. Whether they are a provider or not. I have always tried to be respectful to women. Even if during the session I want to talk a little dirty talk and call them my little whore or something like that I try to make sure afterwords or even before that its just a fantasy to play like that. That k don't really think that.

I guess I just don't get why it would bother a provider to be asked out. As long as the guy doesn't expect anything off the clock. He should always assume that he will compensate the lady for her time. If a provider decides that she doesn't want to charge him for these other activities, that is completely her choice and she should not be judged for it one way or the other.

If you are asked and you don't want to, just politely smile and tell them no. Guys, if they say no, don't be offended. Just understand that they have lives too and maybe they need separation between the hobby and the real world just like you do.

I am married so I would not want to be seen in public on a "date" but if I weren't married I would be more than happy to have one of these lovely ladies on my arm for a night.

Just my thoughts. Originally Posted by Funguy38

Funguy38, True I agree

Now this is a weird situation, all the guys here agree If the lady is sexing you your paying.....but my Gb (that didn't happen) these gents were too serious about non donations. WOW..... Shocking to see some familiar handles here too now speaking up. "That's a little high" "maybe you should lower the rate" "maybe it should be free nice it your fantasy"
Should I give Mid-grade service I'd be thrown under the bus.

You gents kill me, everyone does it time to time. So im not offended.(well, not enough to make a thread) They haggle and try to seek ways around not paying. Dates, movies, coffee,etc. as OP stated

XoXO
Jucci P.

Jucci , I didn't inquire as to your GB . But I have done a few . The ladies rate was 50 - 75 off the normal hr rate . They were 90 min in length . 7 guys . So 250 - 75 = 175 . 7 guys divided by 90 min = 12.8 min actual sex . Why on earth would anyone in their right mind pay 175 for 12.8 min ? It's simple mathematics , they sound good in theory . But they are a sucker deal .

What was the rate and time , how many guys did you expect ?

Charge 75 each do a 90 min with 7 guys , you make 575 in 90 min ! That's almost one third my monthly income in 90 min .

God, its nice to be asked but shit if you've never met me or even had a session with me then I find it rude. (Unless this is agreed upon as part of the dates) Seems like this board is goin' to crap with all the cheap guys and ghetto ass girls comin' on here.....glad I don't stoop down to dollar dates and rates!! Ewwww!!

I understand some guys have limited funds but some of these guys hagglin' or just wanting to hangout or fucking BARTER shit is pissin' me off.....that is when I just press delete hehe(:

Sorry bout the sailor mouth lalala(:

Jucci is right. Why should a provider do anything bcd for free just because they enjoy it. We r clients they are providers. I hope they enjoy their time with us and I try to do all I can so so they will enjoy it. Its a service people you should remember that. You occasionally make friends, but don't expect it every time. If she enjoys your company enough to want to go out ususally she will let you know. It has happened a couple of times for me and its always fun. Frankly I'm surprised it ever happens because honestly most providers. I see are way hotter than any woman I would usually approach in real world. So just have realistic expectations that's all I'm saying. Be safe and have fun

Jucci , I didn't inquire as to your GB . But I have done a few . The ladies rate was 50 - 75 off the normal hr rate . They were 90 min in length . 7 guys . So 250 - 75 = 175 . 7 guys divided by 90 min = 12.8 min actual sex . Why on earth would anyone in their right mind pay 175 for 12.8 min ? It's simple mathematics , they sound good in theory . But they are a sucker deal .

What was the rate and time , how many guys did you expect ? Originally Posted by rockerrick

Ahahahahaha thanks for breakin' that up!! Can't blame a girl for her "hustle"

I'm guessing guys wanting to watch for free or for $25 (might as well be free) is the equivalent to guys askin' to take an escort to dinner then takin' her to chillis or whatever he has a buy 1 get 1 free coupon for?

You occasionally make friends, but don't expect it every time. If she enjoys your company enough to want to go out ususally she will let you know. It has happened a couple of times for me and its always fun. Frankly I'm surprised it ever happens because honestly most providers. I see are way hotter than any woman I would usually approach in real world. So just have realistic expectations that's all I'm saying. Be safe and have fun Originally Posted by achilles1

I've made some wonderful friends in the hobby.....some really hot guys here in eccieland as well as gorgeous women that have beautiful minds and hearts(: