Fancy, just answer up. You brought this back to not answer? You arent running for office, are you?
In my limited experience ladies like and want both.
It seems that a lot of ladies love to start with oral as I do, but once its ready and hard enough they want a pounding. I've had more than one lady demand to be fucked.... Honestly that is a huge turn on, and usually leads to some great pounding. Sure I wish I had a larger tool to take ladies to pound town, but I'm happy to take the trip with what I've got.
I love both myself.... But not all ladies are capable of getting me to take them to pound town... Just like gals YMMV. It takes an emotional as well as a physical connection to really let go like that.