Question for the Guys

Just checking because I hope to one day join the 18,000 mindless posts club. Originally Posted by Tiger Woods

You are well on your way, don't lose any sleep over it.

The closest discussion I have with my civie buddies about the hobby is let's go to the strip club.

You are well on your way, don't loose any sleep over it. Originally Posted by fletch

Trust me, I don't. I could only post *taint* and *1.3" of dangling death* so many times..I'd never get close to 18,000. If I did it would make me a "looser", but it's probably entertainment for someone....

Yes, of course!! I tell them I saw a provider named Samantha Thom- then show him your adds and the pics I took during our session- then told him the special rate and gave him your phone number.. and address just so he can stop by in case you don't answer..

OF COURSE YOU DON'T SAY ANYTHING SILLY!!! GEEZ.

You can get 999 replies that say they don't discuss this with others, but all it takes is one to ruin things. I saw a provider earlier this year that named some famous people she had seen and that's the last time I saw her. I'm sure the "famous people" would be thrilled to know that she was talking about them.

You're bigger concern is people accidentally leaving an open browser or email in plain sight. And once you stumble on the words ECCIE, its not hard to put two-and-two together.

Trust me, I don't. I could only post *taint* and *1.3" of dangling death* so many times..I'd never get close to 18,000. If I did it would make me a "looser", but it's probably entertainment for someone.... Originally Posted by Tiger Woods

I believe you meant "loser." I am not sure what a "looser" is. But this loser knows the difference between lose and loose, do you? My 1.3" of dangling death and tainted posts amuse me.

I believe you meant "loser." I am not sure what a "looser" is. But this loser knows the difference between lose and loose, do you? My 1.3" of dangling death and tainted posts amuse me. Originally Posted by pyramider

HA! good one!

I posted looser because I was told not to "loose" any sleep. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I know the difference. But you missed that.

I am relieved that your posts amuse you. Carry on.

No, I don't talk about it. Some people know "famous" people. Some people have even procured providers for "famous" people. If you're a professional those stories go to the grave with you. Never ask a provider in DC, or any state capital city, who their clients are, you don't want to know, their incall is probably bugged, and "they" might have to come and kill you both.

So "definately" 'tain't smart to be a "looser" by talking hobby business out of school. Even inside the hobby.

When my friends talk about all the bullshit with their SO's, I just say "It's cheaper to rent!" Had a few ask me for details, I tell em "Eros-Dallas.com". Nuff said! I had one close friend I took to the Asian Spas for the first time, now he's hooked. But in most casual convo, no. Never any names or specifics, unless they are truly interested, and in-attached. Not gonna break up any marriages by showing them what they're missing!

Wouldn't they be more inclined to out you, because you turned them down and they already know what you do?

Wouldn't they be more inclined to out you, because you turned them down and they already know what you do? Originally Posted by er48665

They cannot be sure who I am. From the screening info they submitted, I know who they are or I know of them. If it is too close to home (maybe they're in the same social circle), I just tell them I don't think we're compatible or I am currently not taking any new clients. They can wonder all they want who I may be, but they cannot be sure since I do not show my face like this --> LOL

I cannot maintain the spiritual life I wish to lead and keep secrets at the same time. I have an older male friend who also hobbies...we get together occasionally to discuss things that may or may not be hobby related. I have another friend in Vegas that doesn't hobby but is sometimes curious about the hobby.

I can't see how talking about the hobby with friends is any less anonymous than seeing a new provider for the first time. Anyone...I mean anyone, can out you and its much more likely that a person who doesn't know me will out me than one who does.

I cannot maintain the spiritual life I wish to lead and keep secrets at the same time. I have an older male friend who also hobbies...we get together occasionally to discuss things that may or may not be hobby related. I have another friend in Vegas that doesn't hobby but is sometimes curious about the hobby.

I can't see how talking about the hobby with friends is any less anonymous than seeing a new provider for the first time. Anyone...I mean anyone, can out you and its much more likely that a person who doesn't know me will out me than one who does. Originally Posted by timothe

I understand that. But these guys are in the same social circle as me or my civie friends. I'm just paranoid that they will talk amongst friends who are also my friends, too. I will lose face and reputation socially.

Absolutely not. It is for me to know alone. What I do one on one with a woman is just between the two of us... Period.