To all women who don't CIMNS

Samantha, if it makes you feel any better, I had the swimmers removed.

For all of you who are CIM...Bless Your Wonderful Hearts.....and stomachs.

I prefer bbbjnqns but if the provider isn't into that its not a deal breaker for me, however a Cbj is though.

I am Into alot of dfk and having her body smothered all over mine. Any provider can go through the motions and follow their menu but if she makes me feel wanted, that is sexy hot for me

Dear, I am not trying to justify anything. Nor do I feel a need to do so. I was simply answering your question about IOP and how spitting might influince what a guy may preceive. As it happens, I rarely even want a CIM as I much prefer to be inside a woman when I cum. I fully support any womans right to do or not due what ever she feels comfortable and safe. Lack of swallowing would not prevent me from seeing a lady. Nor does CBJ. But for some spitting does have an impact on IOP. It might or might not kill it depending on the guys perspective. Not yours. Thus my response.

Well i see men will always try to justify why you should ingest their sperm... ((its not even about the taste, its about swallowing someones bodily fuilds purposely, not to mention that it has live swimming sperm in it, i dont care if they do die in your stomach... which some how just seemed more unappealing than them being alive))

Ither way, this is not something i practice in my regular life either... back when i had one... i am pretty sure, the men who insist it is the only way for their cum to be disposed of are few and inbetween. I havent heard anyone complain to me about spitting, the few occasions i do CIM.

Perhaps a long time rgular, i say over 5 visits, maybe you could become more comfy and swallow for him, but just to go around swallowing and CIMing every guy is not necessary. I'm not going to swallow your cum, and then never see you again. And dont say if i swallow your cum you will be back over and over, because i've already learned that trick back in high school, when the guy says "Well if you REALLY love me, you'll have sex with me." no its just to get what they want at that moment.

Besides there are plenty of men who actually admire when your menu is not open to every activity you can list. Makes them feel like you are more safe, and practice some kind of discretion and ethic despite the fact.

and trust me OLDbutstill going, My IOP is in the top 10% of my field hunny trust me on that. Me not swallowing a mans cum doesnt impact my Performance, IOP, or getting him off to his fullest. I dont have any NO reviews, and I dont get forced to do things i really dont want to do. All of those qulaities that i possess far trump a simple activity i do not do.

I work very hard at being a provder , by keeping my body in shape, keeping my incall imaculate, keeping my mind sane, and making sure that every man that leaves me is 100% satisfied within my limitations, which are not THAT strict. I simply refuse to do everything in the books, because thats what men want... Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

Mya! I understand you 100 percent. With someone I have a connection with, have seen a lot and have developed an affection for...either a boyfriend or regular clients who have become my good friend, I have done CIM....I don't mind it, I even enjoy it cause it makes them happy. But I don't want to make it a regular practice and drink everyone's cum. Hehehe! It is more of my expression of deeper passionate feeling for someone. It is NOT JUST another "activity" for me to get more business. And that is my honest personal opinion.....for ME only. If someone doesn't feel the same way, it is ok. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Well said Samantha , as always

This is hilarious..please people.. I mean really?? Originally Posted by nosweat

I am glad this discussion has tickled your feather.

@ Txcwby6 , of course i would never make like i am about to throw up in front of a client and it does not make me feel as such. I do not think sperm is disgusting, i just dont want to swallow it lol. I love a mans member with all my heart, i really do, hehe. It is a beautiful thingy, oh, and i spit into the garbage i have placed only about 3 feet away from the bed, so i just slide over and spit and can even keep one foot in the bed... lol

I'm more into the traditional romantic GFE love-making style. Originally Posted by samantha thom

So what if each my sperm came flying out with a tiny roses with a cute bow? kidding.

Besides there are plenty of men who actually admire when your menu is not open to every activity you can list. Makes them feel like you are more safe, and practice some kind of discretion and ethic despite the fact. Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I actually agree with this. That's why, even if she lists her menu on P411 or eccie, I always ask right before we start what her do's and don'ts are. I especially like when she asks what MY do's and don'ts are.

As it happens, I rarely even want a CIM as I much prefer to be inside a woman when I cum. I fully support any womans right to do or not due what ever she feels comfortable and safe. Lack of swallowing would not prevent me from seeing a lady. Nor does CBJ. Originally Posted by OldButStillGoing

Same here, I'd rather be inside her when I cum, covered of course. Also CBJ isn't a deal breaker for me either. Though I do prefer BBBJ I personally can't tell that big of a difference between bbbj and cbj, at least not enough of a difference to make it a deal breaker. Now what is a deal breaker for me is when the lady doesn't allow daty and any form of kissing. The absence of those 2 does ruin the IOP for me.

With someone I have a connection with, have seen a lot and have developed an affection for...either a boyfriend or regular clients who have become my good friend, I have done CIM....I don't mind it, I even enjoy it cause it makes them happy. Originally Posted by samantha thom

Samantha's observation is interesting. I recall that several years ago, CIM was rarely advertised as an available activity. When it was provided to me, this usually came as a surprise (albeit I had given her the orgasm alert), and I was asked not to mention it in any reviews or contacts with other hobbyists. Perhaps my occasional good fortune was just a result of favorable chemistry with certain providers.

Samantha's observation is interesting. I recall that several years ago, CIM was rarely advertised as an available activity. When it was provided to me, this usually came as a surprise (albeit I had given her the orgasm alert), and I was asked not to mention it in any reviews or contacts with other hobbyists. Perhaps my occasional good fortune was just a result of favorable chemistry with certain providers. Originally Posted by Fritz52

That means you're a good gentleman client. The ladies liked you. They felt safe, trusting and comfortable with you cause you treat them well. Thank you!

wow. I read the initial link and thought - holy crap, some one actually paid enough money to get a study done to say that! Did they really have nothing better to do? No, the money was probably THAT GOOD to warrant them to take the time.
My next thought was- Statistics and damn lies.....

I prefer that the gentleman consumed a good amount of pineapple the night before.
Don't be bringing that nasty juice after eating onions or cabbage. Whaaaaa???

Also, most importantly, YMMV.

Cheers!
Torre