What's the guidelines when a provider falls asleep on you during an outcall?

Let her sleep! Seriously, if you don't have anywhere to be, she feels comfortable enough in your presence to sleep, and she feels safe, where's the harm? Yes, this is a business transaction, but there is still the human element. Personally, I'd consider it a bit of a compliment assuming she doesn't fall asleep during sex...

Strip her down, take pics of her in a variety of poses and post them in chat for all of us to see. Make a lovely montage powerpoint video with music and put on youtube or in coed.

I guess you should invite friends over and charge them to bang her.

I had this happen twice with the same provider in the last month.

Anyway, the first time it happened she showed up a little tipsy. After she got her O she kinda of relaxed then went to sleep. Knowing she did not have her own car - I let her sleep a few hours before waking her up. Her phone was not really blowing up - but was active. I got to admire a very beauty woman sleep. I really haven't experience that in a while.

Anyway, it happened again with the same lady. She got her O and I was having problems "focusing" (because we where both drinking). I let her sleep for another 6 hours before I had to go to work.
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What's the providers take on this? Should we wake you up? Let you sleep? Let you sleep alone? Originally Posted by a.c.jobim

well, since she showed up tipsy, i can see why she went to sleep to begin with [on saturday, i had one glass of white wine w/ lunch and as soon as i got home, pretty much conked out for 3 hrs. yeah, i know "lightweight!!"]

but her going to sleep the 2nd time? doesnt sound like you had intense, wipe out sex.
so still wondering if she were more than tipsy to begin with.
over what time frame - 1 hr, 2 hrs, 3 hrs??

...It's a difference between falling asleep and deliberately going to sleep because you have both fucked each others brains out and need time out. Sucks to have a woman fall asleep a second time. Maybe if alcohol wasn't involved? :/ Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

again, it doesnt read like they fucked to sleepyland. maybe more than alcohol involved.

Providers should remain professional at all times... getting drunk and passing out is not the behavior of a smart provider. ...
IMO a couple glasses of wine are okay but if she is drinking to the point that she is passing out cold then there is probably a way bigger issue here. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

^^^^^^^^^^ exactamundo

Im glad you let her sleep and sober up. I hate drunk drivers. You did a good thing. Originally Posted by Tara Evans

^^^^^^^^^^ exactamundo

Either that, or it's a game she's playing.
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I can understand letting her sleep, but being inebriated twice is unacceptable. Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

^^^^^^^^^^ exactamundo

i once visited a woman who took a pain pill soon after i arrived cos she was having major back muscle problems.
no lie - after round 1, she went for bbbj to revive lil delites. she kept nodding out while attempting to do so. after a few times, i just rolled her off me, laid her down to sleep and went to take a shower. she was in never-never land. before i left, i woke her up, told her what happened, that i was going to lock all doors and then left. it was def the pills. she was never like that again.

I had a beautiful lady feeling so comfortable around me that she fell asleep during an in call after a long DATY O. It was all I could do not to f$&@ her hard. I let her sleep and took a nap myself then let myself out about three hours later. I have seen her since and I think she treats me so well because I respected her that evening. Whatever you do be a gentleman.

A few years ago one of my ATF was at my place after a long session and
we cleaned up were laying on the bed talking and sipping a glass of wine and
she begin to nod off. Turned over and we got in the spoon position and five hours
later I woke up and she was giving me a BBBJ. Wow what a way to wake up.
She suited me up and went to the CG position until we both "Oed". We showered and I cooked breakfast and she departed with one big tip.

I had an eventful first meeting with a lady who became my ATF and remained so long after she retired.

I'd taken her to lunch before checking in to a motel along I-20 in Arlington, where we proceeded to spend a very nice hour (well, it was for me, anyway). After a few minutes of post-coital bliss, I began climbing out of bed so I could put myself together. I noticed she was asleep and thought that it was kind of cool that she felt comfortable on doing so.

After maybe 15 minutes, I needed to be on my way, so I tried to wake her to say goodbye. She wouldn't stir; she was unconscious. I couldn't just leave her there, so I called 911, only afterwards wondering what the consequences might be.

The paramedics showed up and began working on her. If they thought it was strange that I didn't know the name or anything about a naked woman lying in the bed, they didn't show it. Meanwhile, her phone is ringing every five minutes because her husband was calling her. I didn't know at the time (and never really knew, even though I actually met him once) how much he knew about what his wife was doing. (She said she'd told him conversation and dancing, but I can't believe that would have flown.)

Anyway, it turned out she was diabetic and had allowed her blood sugar to get too low. Some orange juice and a few cookies later, and she was well enough to decline transportation and further attention.

We had some laughs about that on later appointments, but I was really worried for a while -- both for her and how I might have to try to explain an official report linking me with a dead escort in a motel room.

^^wow

what's with all the jackasses in this thread. take pictures, fuck her while she's sleep....pay a group of men to rape her while she sleep??? seriously what's with you people! you're horrible >_>

A few years ago one of my ATF was at my place after a long session and
we cleaned up were laying on the bed talking and sipping a glass of wine and
she begin to nod off. Turned over and we got in the spoon position and five hours
later I woke up and she was giving me a BBBJ. Wow what a way to wake up.
She suited me up and went to the CG position until we both "Oed". We showered and I cooked breakfast and she departed with one big tip. Originally Posted by Redsan

Dude Best. Story.EVER

I had an eventful first meeting with a lady who became my ATF and remained so long after she retired.

I'd taken her to lunch before checking in to a motel along I-20 in Arlington, where we proceeded to spend a very nice hour (well, it was for me, anyway). After a few minutes of post-coital bliss, I began climbing out of bed so I could put myself together. I noticed she was asleep and thought that it was kind of cool that she felt comfortable on doing so.

After maybe 15 minutes, I needed to be on my way, so I tried to wake her to say goodbye. She wouldn't stir; she was unconscious. I couldn't just leave her there, so I called 911, only afterwards wondering what the consequences might be.

The paramedics showed up and began working on her. If they thought it was strange that I didn't know the name or anything about a naked woman lying in the bed, they didn't show it. Meanwhile, her phone is ringing every five minutes because her husband was calling her. I didn't know at the time (and never really knew, even though I actually met him once) how much he knew about what his wife was doing. (She said she'd told him conversation and dancing, but I can't believe that would have flown.)

Anyway, it turned out she was diabetic and had allowed her blood sugar to get too low. Some orange juice and a few cookies later, and she was well enough to decline transportation and further attention.

We had some laughs about that on later appointments, but I was really worried for a while -- both for her and how I might have to try to explain an official report linking me with a dead escort in a motel room. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot

Wow glad you call 911 then and didn't just leave her there considering should could have died.

but this makes me want to ask a question

I know everyone in this hobby is super up tight about protecting personal information but should we be as hobbyist and provider be informing each other of medical conditions?

Thanks Secret_Amore

Depends on how well you know the woman and the circumstances. If she is a first timer you really need to be kinda careful..Who knows what can happen?? AND that goes for her as well- not a good idea to fall asleep with a stranger- or even do an overnighter for that matter!!
If I know her and have seen her a few times (this has happened twice)- cuddle up next to her, keep her warm- then absolutely fuck the shit out of her in the morning.

what's with all the jackasses in this thread. take pictures, fuck her while she's sleep....pay a group of men to rape her while she sleep??? seriously what's with you people! you're horrible Originally Posted by Secret_Amore

Seriously???

A few years ago one of my ATF was at my place after a long session and
we cleaned up were laying on the bed talking and sipping a glass of wine and
she begin to nod off. Turned over and we got in the spoon position and five hours
later I woke up and she was giving me a BBBJ. Wow what a way to wake up.
She suited me up and went to the CG position until we both "Oed". We showered and I cooked breakfast and she departed with one big tip. Originally Posted by Redsan

Dammit, man!!!

That shit NEVER happens to me!

One of the best times I've had was with SexyKim. After our romp in the bed I'd massage her and sometimes she would fall asleep in my arms. She was one of the best. I miss her...

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