Outspoken much? Too much? Why or why not?

A lot of men might say that they could care less how intelligent a provider is, but it's what kept roughly 80% of my regulars coming back and lead to multi-hour bookings, off-site dates, and it also lead to a handful of meaningful friendships. So yes, I think being intelligent and outspoken does have an impact, and a net positive impact at that. Originally Posted by JennsLolli

It's always a pleasure reading your posts.. we know each other.. btw.

He recalls with sincere fondness a young lady (who shall remain nameless) who seemed to possess the physical attributes that were important to him, but who also was obviously intelligent (which even a dolt like Spacemtn could see just from reading her POSTS) which was the biggest attraction of all!! In fact, even before meeting her in person, he was a bit smitten by her wit and intellect. The meeting proved to be all he had hoped for (as did subsequent meetings between the two of them), and to this day he remains friends with this wonderfull lady that he probably would not have met had it not been for the intelligence displayed in her POSTS!!!!!! Originally Posted by Spacemtn

Yeah, she is special but, the intelligent ones always seem to be run off... fortunately she and I are still in touch.

Personally, I really like intelligent women...providers or otherwise. Honestly, I'm much more likely to visit a girl who IS talkative on the boards here and represents herself well. It gioves me some idea about her personality and while that's not a major consideration for everyone here in our little community, it's a significant thing to me.

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Yeah, she is special but, the intelligent ones always seem to be run off... fortunately she and I are still in touch. Originally Posted by kSoze

Wow dude, this is pretty hellaciously creepy.

ANYway, I have always been attracted to women who intrigue me both physically and mentally. As I told someone recently, I never book less than an hour because it takes me at least a half an hour if not longer just to shut up. I tend to look for providers who are companions, not just roll in the hay #47. That implies that they are somewhat older (not always, but usually), are intelligent, and are very opinionated to the point where they can hold their own with self-absorbed smartasses such as myself.

This is one of the reason I never write reviews, because who wants to read "provider laughed at all my jokes" as an activity list?

It's always a pleasure reading your posts.. we know each other.. btw. Originally Posted by kSoze

That certainly narrows things down a bit...or...

Well, this certainly has turned out to be a very enlightening thread!

Space, your story brought a tear to my eye, that's sweet

Ksoze, does she know she is still in touch with you?? Are you saying she is special, but not that smart, because most of the smart one's stay off the board? lol!!!

F2C- Good book. I have read it.

Knotty and everyone else, thank you for a meaningful conversation. I don't understand why ladies let people run them off? I guess they have better things to than post where they think they may not be appreciated.

I, for one, love men who are intelligent and humble. I would even classify myself as a Sapiosexual!

If asked about my own intellect I would have to say I'm a idiot who is willing to learn. I love when I can discuss things that I have opinions pretty well made and then have someone express a counter opinion that makes sense. When you learn to look at both sides of a coin then try to look at the point where both sides meet you find many things out. I love to ask an opinionated they're side of an argument tell my side and see how they react. If I get yelled at and told I'm an moron I usually figure that person is not willing to learn . I figure a supremacist is a supremacist be it racial religious political or anything else. But I can learn from anyone even someone I dont agree with as long as they think and can express that thought.

So yes I enjoy a woman who I can talk to . But I prefer to get to know them through pm. As I work on a limited hobby budget. So I'll send pm's to get to know someone a little better then make a informed decision if I want to see them or not. For the most part if a conversation is I like money and a little laugh I'll pass. But if its more like I like Monet and a little laugh I want to know you better. I'll keep trying to talk because I like to feel like I know someone before I meet them. Settles the nerves a bit I'm paranoid enough without meeting someone I don't know anything about.

Johnny

F2C- Good book. I have read it. Originally Posted by Scarlett Rossi

Scarlett, me thinks you might want to read it again, concentrating on
DON’T TAKE ANYTHING PERSONALLY

Your question about how we see you triggered this, once you mastered it, you won't give a damn anymore.

I admit, I have problems with the 1st agreement, I just like to make fun of myself (yes be an ass), but once I had conquered 2nd and 4th agreements, I could, lol.

Great thread, THX

I didn't take anything personally. I swear. It's hard to convey that thru text, but I see your point

While I do not really care what most think of me in the outside world, I do care that potential GOOD clients may be scared of me, for whatever reason. I am too opinionated, maybe coming off as a know it all, smart ass, my proclivities for fetish etc. And I am curious as to how men feel about opinionated, somewhat intelligent women on the board. I have a personal and business interest

Got it, sometimes I forget the biz side of things with all the fun to be had ... You are right and doing the right thing.

Personally, I find the dates where we eat and or drink and just have a nice conversation are the best ones for me. I like making people laugh and have went two hours just laughing with my new friend before our BCD activities.