Perhaps there are mixed scenarios here: There is a difference between scheduling an appointment then aborting versus waking up one morning without appointments and deciding whether there will be a performance that day.
Originally Posted by saustin
(I'm expecting 95% of the people not read this. I like to talk more than I think anyone gives a shit to read, so don't roll your eyes too far back when I get chatty. I really don't think that highly of my opinions.)
To saustin-- absolutely. Sometimes I'm a sloppy writer and my clarity is sub-par, especially when I'm trying to be (a bit) brief. In the first scenario, I was much happier when that was an option for me in an agency set-up. (The cons of agency work are certainly real, but that's another story). But I will openly admit that I found myself doing the second scenario as well and I'm not ashamed to admit it. This is what happens when I chose clarity over brevity...
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Provider A: We'll call her JemsDolli. 22, cute enough, B- TCB, good reviews with a full menu (I can't read the juicy parts). Available 7 days a week, rarely more than two appointments a day but sometimes up to five. Sex-positive and honest to God into it mostly for the banging and less so for the green. There's a 1 in 10 chance she might cancel at the last minute, but she'll be upbeat and sincere when she sees you and in a similar mindset when you leave. Active sex life outside of providing.
8am: Alarm goes off, she feels off. The provider hat doesn't fit today so she cancels her two appointments. She might opt to see a fuck-buddy instead who calls her by her Christian name or she might opt to do laundry and read a book.
Provider B: We'll call her Madge. 22, hot, A+ with a gold star TCB, great reviews with a very limited menu. Available 7 days a week, rarely fewer than four appointments a day, sometimes as many as eight. Rates drastically increase just to keep up with demand, menu remains unchanged. She'll greet you at the door with a smile and a glass of cold water and keep things perfectly timed so you don't have a run in with the appointment following yours. When you'll leave she'll sigh a heavy sigh and give herself a pep-talk to put on a smile for the next guy. Inactive sex life outside of providing.
8am: Alarm goes off. She sneaks into bed with Provider A and bitches about how many boys are on the books, especially the one who always smells funny and that other one who is a bit too aggressive. Provider A tries to talk her into a girls' day out, but Provider B sighs and drags her feet to the shower.
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This is the part where we get into the time machine***
Provider A+: Shelf-life of 3 years as regularly active FS provider. Great memories of this place -- time has highlighted the positives and dimmed out the negatives. Booking trips once in a blue moon to see old clients and in contact with a few of her regulars.
Provider B+: Shelf-life of 7 months as a regularly active, FBSM provider. Mostly gross memories of this place -- time has made her fully regret her decision to provide and although the toys purchased were fun for a bit, they've long lost their sparkle. Never, ever mentions the time spent here, would probably throw-up if she ever received contact with a former client. It's a take-to-the-grave secret that we never discuss, even among ourselves.
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Provider B worked her ass off and probably all of the men here would call her the better provider because of her professionalism, but I don't want to be her. And yes, this is me being selfish by picking my sanity over y'all's convenience, but I'm young, single, and don't owe anything to anyone (except the bank, those student loans are a bitch) so I will do it without shame. Besides, I'm more interested in the boning than the business anyway.
