To the Providers: have you ever wonder whatever happened to that guy....

Oh MAX not so quick what could go wrong? Sweet, this Bubba, calling on behalf of MAX she is worried about you, your well being and that of your family and friends. I mean totally innoxious.
Originally Posted by SweetAterPie

awww....it was considerate of Bubba to suggest. He likes to be helpful. We appreciate it, but it ain't happenin'. At least I wouldn't...but that's just me.

All I know is if I'm the guy, PM me. Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW

Dear Gonzo,

It's been a while. How have ya been and what's happening...oops....you said to PM you. My bad. brb

It could just be the fact that he may have now have a SO (if he was single before). I know when I begin dating someone seriously, I do not hobby. Not trying to pass judgement on any of the married guys here, everyone's situation is different.

BTW, full disclosure, Max is probably lying here. But, OMG, how I love her for it!!!!!

BTW, full disclosure, Max is probably lying here. But, OMG, how I love her for it!!!!!

But that's the beauty isn't it? There for just a split second you think maybe it's true.... that's like magic!

Yes, gotta love her for that

Did you ever see a guy just one time and wish he called again, but never did ? maybe thought for sure you would, but surprised when you didn't ? Originally Posted by ironore

Yep, seems to happen all too often.. " Mmm, I wonder what ever happen to XXXX" and within a weeks TOP they are contacting me or I've heard from them in some shape, form or fashion. I love reconnecting with old friends, those lasting relationships can pick up right where they left off.

J

BTW, full disclosure, Max is probably lying here. But, OMG, how I love her for it!!!!! Originally Posted by Gonzo DFW

Who? Me? Lie? I don't know what you silly men are talking about!

All kidding aside, I think Gonzo is a great guy and I enjoy our time together and he knows it. If I didn't, I would never have attempted to flirt online in an open forum for the whole community to see...so there! LOL

Just for discretionary purposes, I would hope the answer to that would be, not just no, but No Way! Originally Posted by M A X

Not that I want to be any kind of phone service, was just an idle thought. Would clearly have to be a very trusted, personal friend. But, your right. Discretion would make it very hard to actualy do.

Not that I want to be any kind of phone service, was just an idle thought. Would clearly have to be a very trusted, personal friend. But, your right. Discretion would make it very hard to actualy do. Originally Posted by Bubba3452

I don't know, hon. If ya think about it, it's a type of outting, which is a "cardinal sin" in the hobby. I'm not sure any gent would want to receive a phone call from a stranger with a message from a provider. 1. She told you something about Him in order to get you to call for her. 2. She told you something about HIM in order to get you to call for her. Know what I mean? Probably best not to advocate, suggest, consider or follow through with anything even remotely like this. Lot's of folks are wired up about this subject right now, because some of the ladies are not playing by the community rules, and I for one, don't blame them for being upset.

It was a suggestion you probably just didn't consider long enough before posting, no worries. I've been guilty of oopsie posting and actually became "a player" due to it. Of course I had had a couple of martini's at the time....but don't tell anyone. LOL

What ever happened to Michael Keaton?....poof..up and vanished, that guy

I cant count how many providers I have only seen once never to see again. Some or the reasons I have are:

1. Provider was out of my price range to begin with, but just had to try it to say i did.

2. Provider was everything she said, but just wasn't "my type". How do you tell someone you are great but just not great to me?

3. Tried contacting them after the first session but never got a response. Figured even though my money spent just as good as the next guy's, my company was not worth it. So I never pursued it.

4. Drama with provider.

5. But the one that has impacted me the most, is my decrease in discretionary funds in the last few years.

Peace

Yep.....that is all I have to say about that. What is worse, is when you see someone numerous times and they just stop. Never hear from them again..period. Originally Posted by reese foster

Understood, but...

yes that has happened to me once or twice but i try to not take it personally though. i understand sometimes tastes changes as well as circumstances. Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

As Jules stated, don't take it personally because...

1) The SO starts to get suspicious and "that guy" decides not to take any risks to inform the provider, and/or...

2) Maybe "that guy" found the love of his life and decided to leave the hobby quietly.

Just my 2-cents worth.

netman

This is an excellent question. I'm not a full-time hobbyist nor am I wealthy man and have on occasion had a lady I enjoy move a notch or two above what I choose to spend. I just look at it as them outgrowing me as a client... If she is curious about why I would tell her if she asked but it's not something I would ever bring up on my own. Originally Posted by stateofmindtx

This happened to me and I didn't know how to handle it so I just disappeared. She raised her published rates after I had been seeing her for 5+ years. She never said anything to me.

Should I contact her and tell her that I can't afford her cuurent rate but I would love to see her for (current rate -$50)? Keep in mind that I've seen her 10-20x over a multi-year period. She will certainly remember me. I called her my MILF and she called me her FILF.

if there hadnt been some stories recently about weirded out parents doing that to their kids, i would consider this funny.

i would consider this funny : "and locked away in the attic....starving for sex."


whenever someone does dissappear, one always wonders what happened to them. whether in civilian or hobby life, it can be a mystery.

i often wonder what happened to some of the women who provided in dallas but are nowhere to be seen: grace [the australian fbsm+ woman], felacia and hollye, sassy classy, bobbi [from june's tan and dallas spa], red headed lauren, ...
such memories..... Originally Posted by pmdelites

i talked to hollye 3 days ago. ever stable, she is just as cool as she ever was.

I hate it when good men disappear. It's like a miniature break-up with your best friend. You've lost that person, and nothing is the same until you make a new friend!

i talked to hollye 3 days ago. ever stable, she is just as cool as she ever was. Originally Posted by amitriptylyne

Damn Dude, you waited over 3 years to post something, then decided to break your silence on 3 year old thread....Lmao...Why didn't you just send him a PM telling him you found her for him and she's not locked away in an attic starving and keep your Monk-like code of silence intact?!