Who pays?

You know the hobby is expensive, everyone knows that going in, lately it seems we have some fellas trying to play but they don't make enough pay or in other words, they have ECCIE taste and 10th and Central means.

Yes DD.
I would think they would cruse the Ave... looking for the 20.00 ladies.
Feels like a lot of Luckers are looking to get over on the providers now a days.

Yes DD.
I would think they would cruse the Ave... looking for the 20.00 ladies.
Feels like a lot of Luckers are looking to get over on the providers now a days. Originally Posted by Helicopter206

I agree, personally I think there has just be a general drop in class on the board, I am not talking about the arguing hell thats has always been around, but just a general decline of the class that raised this board and the ladies above the street. For example: we has regressed to using the term hooker, personally when I think of hooker I dont think of the ladies on this board, I think of the street walkers. Because we have allowed the class to decline those whom are lacking in tack are encouraged to engage, hence you get hooker, hows this one make money and she's a mudshark kinds of posts. Class doesnt cost anything, but is sure raises the value of everything it touches.

For those of you thinking all this diatribe from a criminal, let me just say I conduct myself in public and in everything I do with class, that is how I was taught to behave by those who mentored me.

DD, agree with everything in your above post...except one thing

People either have class or they totally don't have class.

So in my book, class is truly priceless.

There are examples on Eccie of those who both have it...or don't have it.

Unfortunately, the examples of those that don't are rapidly rising...and the fact that the subject matter of this thread had to be discussed shows that.
Btw, my last statement was not meant as a shot at the OP...just that we need to even talk about the subject, IMO.

DD, quit your damn brown nosing...lol

Seriously, I also agree with what you said. The problem is, class and common sense go hand in hand, and neither are very common anymore.

I don't have his handle
He is definitely a guy from here (eccie). I checked his references but didn't get his handle.
I know the more I think of it, the more I feel cheated. I always have the option of MSOG and he utilized that option.

Unfortunately, due to this weekend, I am no longer offering hh appointments to anyone I haven't seen before. Should cut out some of the hassle, I think... Originally Posted by Graceutr

What about getting the name from the girls you got your references from?
Just an idea...

What about getting the name from the girls you got your references from?
Just an idea... Originally Posted by OLindsay

Good idea! I will try that and if able I will post handle. Thanks

If a guy books a hr he needs to pay for the hr period. Understanding in this business that refuds are not common and you will get what you pay for. This guy will have troubles getting a good date now and that's what he deserves. If you can't afford your hobbie habits then don't spend your money. I hope grace figures out his handle so we can know who he is. Please pm me if you find it grace

I would say if you scheduled an hour you pay for an hour unless the provider has to cut it short. If this happened she should provide some compensation. Could be extra time on another time or some refund agreed upon by both.

There are many quality providers who do not watch the clock and exceed the hour. If we expect a refund when we leave early of our own desire then we should also be willing to pay when we exceed the hour. Just my two cents.

Im in agreement with everyone here. If a hobbyist schedules an hour, then the provider is scheduling her time based on that request and should be compensated for the amount of time scheduled, regardless of what happens BCD or how long it takes.

I've had sessions that didnt last anywhere near an hour, but it was my choice to request an hour session and paid for the hour even I was done and out in 30mins. I chose the hour so I paid for what I asked for. That's only fair - not just in the hobby but in real life too.

To try and take money back just because the hobbyist was quick on trigger and felt entitled to get anything back is in poor taste and disrespectful of the providers time.
A provider offering to give money back for whatever reason is one thing - but for a hobbyist to feel entitled and just take money back is rude, classless dipping a toe in the "theft" waters. I agree they should be outed.

As Bailey said, even though its a "hobby" and it's fun, at the end of the day it's still a business - providers should be compensated for the time they schedule to see a hobbyist. Period.