you guessed wrong, i never posted a self alert. eat another burger babe.What they mean by self alert is, part of most ladies screening process (for active board members) is to check your profile , read your reviews(whats visible) and statistics(posts, threads, type of comments and remarks) to get feel of what kind of person you might be based on your writing styles.
in response to kka. Originally Posted by underthesun
And yeah if you come off mean, rude, too demanding, complaining too much, then some ladies might not be interested in seeing you. That's the self alert