Where does the line of fetish start?

I like feet, they like me.

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fet·ish also fet·ich (ftsh, ftsh)
3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.
4. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation. Originally Posted by DallasRain

These are the two definitions I've heard most in clinical discussions of sex. A fetish is when a person sexualizes a object that is normally not thought of as sexual. Or a fetish is when someone requires the inclusion of a specific object or ritual to get off, either through porn that showcases it, through literally having that object or routine present in the sex act, or through imagining that object or routine in order to reach orgasm.

For my personal use, I just call something a fetish if it trends in my sex life, especially within very specific fantasies during masturbation. I also use it to describe something that triggers arousal when I'm in an otherwise vanilla situation. I somewhat empathize with the boys who adore feet because I'm a girl who adores big man hands. I get crazy side-tracked on a weekly basis when I catch sight of giant man paws at a meeting, at work, out at a bar, etc. Cowboy boots are a new weakness of mine and the only material thing that comes to mind for me specifically in this discussion. Lingerie, on the other hand, plays a big part in my sexuality, but I'm not sure if I'd consider it a fetish -- it's more like an adult version of dress-up that allows me to lure out my own sexuality. God, I do love lingerie.

Kink I define as something that would make my average girlfriend squeamish if I owned up to ever doing it in bed, let alone mention wanting to do it in bed. Some girls think CIM is as gross as it gets, so that's why I say "average girlfriend."

Ok since we can't talk about fucking ******* self edit forbidden topic , what about people who like to be defected on? Is that a fetish lol.

Before you ask, fuck no I'm not into that.

If you require actual defecation or the thought of defecation to get off, then yes. If it's a once-in-a-blue-moon thing, I think that it qualifies as an extreme kink.

Knotty, you heard the man, don't be fowl!


sorry Spacemtn, I'll behave myself.

DallasRain... thanks for the definition. kiss!

Jennslolli I agree, scat qualifies! And no, I'm not into that either. There are degrees of kink, some more permanently on the menu, others are just a phase. I like to consider myself pretty open minded but I do have some hard limits. Most of them are part of the posting rules on this site. LMAO

F*rm An*mals ?

F*rm An*mals ? Originally Posted by rockerrick

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If you KNOW what's going to happen next (or how much it's going to hurt), it's normal...if you don't, then it's over the line into fetish...if you do it regularly, it's kink.

Knotty, you heard the man, don't be fowl!


sorry Spacemtn, I'll behave myself. Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

It's spankings for you, you naughty wench!!!! (that qualifies, don't it?????)

Spacemtn
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Athena,
thats so true & I totally agree. I've figured out what I like but I'm still surprised on occasion. I try to stay open minded because specific likes are so subjective. I'm definitely on the kink spectrum and I do think its a spectrum. I guess I'm just curious about other provider/client boundaries. When does kink level effect donation and by how much? I'm just wanting to other perspectives.

You are so sweet to give an honest answer. I wanted to respond in kind. Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

Jesse, As far as upcharge for fetishes or kink, to me it is all included in my playtime. I so enjoy pushing limits and seeing a man reach a higher level of pleasure that it makes my pussy wet and I crave the mind fuck as much as they do. As far as boundaries, well I do have limits butt I am very open minded about listening to anothers fantasy and seeing if we cant make it cum true. My job as a Mistress is to allow the man to be free of any bounders he has in his daily life and enjoy the break as he lives out his fantasy for a few hours. Slurp~~

Well said, Ms Athena!

Spacemtn I'm not naughty, I'm not naughty, I'm not naughty!


well, maybe a little

Spacemtn I'm not naughty, I'm not naughty, I'm not naughty!


well, maybe a little Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

no. im knotty

no. im knotty Originally Posted by knotty man

yes that has become VERY obvious to all of us !!!