Pm and emails are the way to go. Aside from just being annoyed late at night, giving out your phone number right away just seems to add another step to screening. The first thing I'm gonna ask is can you pm me through eccie or p411. Just seems like an extra step to me. I did have one guy recently who posted my number on a review. It resulted in texts that started at 3 am and a penis picture at 5 am. well, good morning to you too, sir.
Originally Posted by Annef
I want to make a phone call because, a lot of the time, PMs and e-mails go to the pimp, not the provider.
I also don't want to send a PM, then stand by cooling my heels for a few hours waiting for the provider to get around to replying. Then I don't want to exchange messages back and forth for a few hours, getting the arrangements set up.
Phone call: Once we make contact, everything is arranged right away or not at all. I can move on to the next provider on my list.
I also want to know that once we agree on a meeting, I can call you shortly before and be sure you're still going to be there, the previous client/boyfriend/neighbor/family/pimp has left, you can give me directions, we can shift times if you're not going to be ready on time, or, if traffic gets me there a little early, I can ask if you're ready, or should I wait. I especially want to know I can call you as I'm trying to find the right room number, whether you're ready to open the door as soon as I get there, etc. I don't like having to bang on the door, and stand out in the hallway with the eyes of the neighbors boring into my back.
However, I do heartily approve of also exchanging a PM to verify I'm who I say I am (and you're who you say you are) somewhere in the process.