When Do you Know its Time to Quit the Hobby

Samus, I can elaborate more via PM if you'd like. I don't want to put our business out there like that

Francesca, maybe you should be a sugar baby ?? That seems like it would be a better fit. I'm just saying. If you're good enough of an actress to make men believe you are in love with them, then why not fake it for a 30 min session? I'm sorry, I just skimmed over your lengthy quoted response, maybe I read it wrong.

Back to the original scenario, most guys that I blow off is because of their approach. Haggling prices, being rude, saying things they shouldn't be saying... there is an etiquette to this hobby and if not followed, you will rub the providers the wrong way. Check out your approach. I'd love to give you tips on correct ways to contact a girl like me, PM me if you're new and would like some advice.

I'm sorry, I just skimmed over your lengthy quoted response, maybe I read it wrong. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

No need to apologize.
If you skimmed over, you didn't read it wrong, you didnt read it at all.

Decisions..decisions.



I think we've all been there at one time or another. Unlike me you've probably got a lot more miles left in you so maybe a short pit stop is in order. Refuel...regenerate.

In June I had 3 missed dates. Two were rescheduled and one was a NCNS all within 4 days time. Took a two week break before inviting anyone to engage in the Loxly Experience.

So.. Leo. Ever get any use out of that "Speed Dating" outfit?

Ms Francisca, this is where you described me to a 'T' and we haven't been BCD.


To the OP, I have been in this thing for 5 or more years, met a lot of ladies, been BCD with a whole lot less. I found some to be fantastic and some less so. However, this is still a necessity for an older, ugly fat man to share intimacy with someone that will find me funny, interesting and a fantastic lover. I guess I am self delusional.

If you feel the need to step away, do so. But do not make your decision based on one get together where things didn't work out.

Should you decide to return to the hobby then you return to the hobby.000

Best to you.

Dogg Originally Posted by Doglegg

As an older Blk guy who has been in the hobby for a long time I can assure you that being ignored in one way or another will happen from time to time. When that happens you shouldn't fixate on the particular situation. In other words, if they have a problem with you, for whatever reason, then that is their problem-- not yours. Do your research and move on to someone else. This has worked well for me over the years and I have had no desire to leave the hobby..

Bow out. In other words bow to the lady you have been dancing with, turn and walk away as another gentleman takes his place. A term well used in my opinion.
Dogg Originally Posted by Doglegg

Used in a time of chivalry and gentlemen, with a duel to the death to follow so to protect the man's honor.

I am not very good at sugar coating things. Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

Now that is an understatement....... When did you runaway to SA?


OP... If it's too much work to have fun.....

git gone....

My Darling Whispers... Long time no see my friend. What an interesting surprise to see you in this part of the world. I see you have made oodels of friends lol

Will I see you in costume tomorrow?

My Darling Whispers... Long time no see my friend. What an interesting surprise to see you in this part of the world. I see you have made oodels of friends lol

Will I see you in costume tomorrow? Originally Posted by Ms Francisca

perhaps.... I will be the guy in normal attire carrying roses and and a giftbag, an empty wallet and a nametag that says "ECCIE CoED Frequent Poster"....

No ...... I am not the holder of a golden ticket.......

and someone needs to watch over this place for a while.....

besides..... Wifey won't let me go out of town without her...... Seems I brought home towels from a hotel she has never been once....

perhaps.... I will be the guy in normal attire carrying roses and and a giftbag, an empty wallet and a nametag that says "ECCIE CoED Frequent Poster"....
Bring me Red Roses so they match my dress

besides..... Wifey won't let me go out of town without her...... Seems I brought home towels from a hotel she has never been once.... Originally Posted by Whispers

Bring the Lovely Wifey!!! Give her a nice wet Beso from me.