"Don Jon" and Masturbation

Primarily, the hobby for me is about finding and meeting providers with a kinky side that truly love sex in all its forms so I can explore fantasies and get to do things I wouldn't normally get to do in my non hobby life.
As such, most of my hobby sessions are more towards the dirtier, kinkier side of things. Having said that though, I've had more typical vanilla sessions as well and they great. It all depends in the provider, the connection I have, and what my mood and driving desire is that day.

I watch more porn than I need to... or that I should. Thumbs up for porn.

Primarily, the hobby for me is about finding and meeting providers with a kinky side that truly love sex in all its forms so I can explore fantasies and get to do things I wouldn't normally get to do in my non hobby life.
As such, most of my hobby sessions are more towards the dirtier, kinkier side of things. Having said that though, I've had more typical vanilla sessions as well and they great. It all depends in the provider, the connection I have, and what my mood and driving desire is that day. Originally Posted by Bcdrummer

you naughy hot little thing!! stop getting me so horny at 9am! lol

DESENSITIZED! that was the word I was trying to think of.......we all are

so......I am worried....no one has said they get hard just seeing a pretty woman in a nice dress??!! ok....how bout if its a short, tight, low cut dress? lol

Angel, you know from experience that when I see you in a short, tight dress that I get rock hard and that the dress doesn't stay on very long.

I'm not sure porn de sensitizes us pervs so much as it unrealistically raises expectations. Not every lady is a porn star, not every monger is a stud and it's not as easy as it looks to do most of that shit.

Angel, a pretty woman in a short, tight, low cut dress always gets me hard, also trying to eat lunch at Twin Peaks or Hooters. Cleavage gets me every time.

you naughy hot little thing!! stop getting me so horny at 9am! lol

DESENSITIZED! that was the word I was trying to think of.......we all are

so......I am worried....no one has said they get hard just seeing a pretty woman in a nice dress??!! ok....how bout if its a short, tight, low cut dress? lol Originally Posted by Angel in KC

Turning sexy women on is an enjoyable pastime of mine

To answer your question, I don't NEED porn to get aroused Simple things like seeing a hot woman in a sexy outfit or overhearing a provocative innuendo makes the mind wander and gets me going.
I don't always need to watch porn when masturbating either. Sometimes I just like to close my eyes and reminisce about some of the great sex I've had. Thinking about a particularly hot session and putting myself back there mentally while masturbating can get me off just as much as watching a hot porn scene. Kinky momentos from a provider given as a present certainly helps to relive memorable moments

Not me. Though I know a guy that looks like me, talks like me, walks like me, and acts like me, and he watches porn all the time and pulls the pork a couple times a day. But me, nah... Not me! Couldn't possibly be me!

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I enjoy erotic stories more than videos.

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I enjoy erotic stories more than videos. Originally Posted by BigWayne

+1 - adult stories are definitely an under rated form of porn. I too go through phases where I'm primarily read sex stories for inspiration. Painting your own picture in your mind as your reading a sex story online is just as hot as watching it. Definitely triggers the mental arousal aspect of sex to read others thoughts/feelings etc in a sex story.

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I enjoy erotic stories more than videos. Originally Posted by BigWayne

YES!! me too!!

Masterbaiting isn't that what pro fisherman do.
While playing with their pole.

so.....I guess all men do it then? but is it healthy? or does it lead to men needing more and more kinky types of stimulation and visuals to get off?

long ago men were turned on by a pretty girl in a dress

now she has to be wearing leather crotchless panties, thigh high fishnets, stripper heels, pasties and being f***ed in places that they didn't used to use, and by objects and blah, blah, blah

I mean, is a regular lady like me enough to turn a guy on? or do they have to see me gang banged by 10 guys with huge manhoods shooting c*m all over my face?

I guess I am just afraid men are needing more and more to get turned on....
just like violence on tv and the movies....it has to get more and more gory and horrifying to satisfy people Originally Posted by Angel in KC

No, I do not need all of the above to get turned on. A live woman works much better for me.

There is also a big difference in watching porn and being addicted to porn.

As far as spanking the monkey, I tend to think about past encounters or fantasize about women I know.

I can get hard just reading the banter between all the hot girls on the board combined with the innuendos, and teasing? It is great stuff.


Men love to look at a good looking women who is dressed sexy and imagine her with no clothes and how much fun you would have with her in the bedroom.

Being a single guy and not getting laid much, I watch a fair amount of porn and jerk off probably 4-5 times a week.... I'm not really into standard boy/girl banging stuff, I would much rather watch a woman solo or lesbian videos.....as far as pictures, it's almost strictly solo women.... Every rare now and again I'll be briefly into something kinky or crazy like a gangbang or an adult theater type of thing...... and by the way I LOVE a gloryhole video..... I've never really been into S&M or B/D or anything like that.....
I just like a woman that's getting off how she likes to....... I'll all about the woman lol