When Private Information is Used Against Me

I don't have any idea why I am being accused of having member access. I barely know how to use a computer at all. I even get mods blaming me for things I am innocent of and still giving me infractions. I am taking a break and going way UTR. No more craziness or drama zone over here. I refuse to take part in these silly games. Originally Posted by Persianlilly

So how's you're taking a break and not playing in "drama zone over here" and going way UTR....going????

I got an idea...perhaps placing an ad or making a post in the short-term availability of a provider thead, will really show us that you are done with this site!!!

And how was your 39 seconds in Texas....or was that 49 seconds in Texas???

I know...credibility can be a difficult thing some time...perhaps we could have a good prayer to the baby Tebow for some guidance???

No one said I was done with ECCIE. I never said that at all. I said I am taking a break. If you needed further explanation regarding my statement, simply ask. The week I spent in Houston was quite relaxing thanks for asking and I have no idea what a "Tebow" is or means.
If I may add a personal comment, it wouldn't surprise me at all if you vk are also someones alter handles.

To some, one can place ads and bitch all day, and at the same time, remain drama free and remain UTR. I've never quite understood the concept, but there's probably some form of logic intertwined. UTR, UTR, ad, ad, ad. Drama free, drama free, bitch, moan, complain. I'll keep praying for little Tebow and guidance as well. I see no need to dummy this down, I don't think Tebow wants any of our help or guidance.

No one said I was done with ECCIE. I never said that at all. I said I am taking a break. Originally Posted by Persianlilly

Maybe I'm a fucking idiot, but how do you define, "taking a break"???

Has anyone ever personally seen PS? I am not trying to be rude or ugly but I can't seem to find any valid reviews on the provider. Could it be a member in providers clothes. Honestly I don't know how to verify providers but the ones I have met in person who I know are legit at least have valid reviews. Maybe I am just unable to locate "her" reviews and in that case I apologize for false accusations. Originally Posted by Persianlilly

In PS defense, many ladies prefer not to have reviews written in regards to what they do in private. Reviews are not the only way to verify someones validity. I personally think its distasteful to have the public know what I've done with hundreds of men. And I think its gross when ladies advertise, " 300+ yes reviews, they cant be wrong." Blehhhh....

No need to defend when there's no attack. What you say makes a lot of sense.

Well based upon your posts in Texas...it sure was obviously very, very quiet, lol

And yes, after over 3,000 posts, and nearly 4 years on Eccie, you have "out'd" me....I'm really Silly Girl!!!!

Praise be, baby Tebow....no one can pull a fast one on you!!!

Oh wow! Vk is a very reputable stand up guy! He is opinionated but never disrespects the ladies. He's been around awhile girlie. Your accusations are way way off hunny.

I think some women would be uncomfortable being in the position of.....I'm not going to say it but I think it would be up there was appearing nude in public for some people. I am sure (thought we are not used to it) that some young women would avoid appearing in public in a too revealing bikini.

For the record, using the term Baby Tebow is a reference to the football player Tim Tebow who is very religious. He made the news a couple of years ago when the story that his missionary mother and father were informed that her son would be sickly and probably die before birth. An abortion was highly recommended but she refused. Now he is a professional football player. I take that someone is ridiculing religion in general and Christianity specifically when they use that phrase. Someone do it in a playful way like a local talk radio personality but others are a bit more nasty. I don't know where VK falls into the category.

No accusations, sexy Gemma, just an innocent statement. I'm sure he is what you say he is as I have always respected your judgement of character.

Yes vk as I said it was nice and quiet. It's just as relaxing right now and I apologize if I offended you in regards to questioning your eccie experience. What is the purpose of all the religious references and football though? I'm confused by that a bit.

I'm going to dissect your post and put emphasis on a few bold parts...



First, I read where you indicate, "I had to cancel it" and "I explained why." I disagree that YOU... HAD... to cancel it.
You didn't have to cancel. You chose to cancel. The client was not given the option to still see you. He had his hopes up, and you backing out probably left him disappointed, and rightfully so, if a person has their hopes up and plans change last minute, I think any normal person would be disappointed. If I were in your shoes, I would not have cancelled. I would have left it entirely up to the client. Maybe he is ok with blood dripping from your womanly parts, it might be a turn on to him, he could be open to alternate activities, perhaps shower play, there are many ways to get around canceling when PMS interferes. Easiest way I have found is to just tell the client you are bleeding. Leave it at that. Let him call the shots, let him decide if he still wants to see you.

Second, yes, you are supposed to be upfront.
Letting someone gruesomely discover on their own with no heads up is tacky and greedy. Yes, be upfront, but don't make it sound like, "Sorry, you're out of luck today."

Third, I think if you leave the final decision up to the client, since he is the paying customer, then he is less likely to be upset.
It isn't about whether or not you can make something stop, it's how you handle the situation when it presents itself, which it's bound to happen a dozen times every year, so I'd say get used to it and figure out how you're going to handle it next time. Come up with a better way to handle it for the next go around.

I know the decision is yours on how to handle this type of thing when it happens, but wanted to give some points to consider for down the road. I think being open with the client will go a long way. If you tell him that you're not feeling too well, or that you're cramping really bad, I think most clients would be up for a raincheck; but when it comes across as if you are canceling instead of letting them be the one to say it, that's when it can get sticky. Originally Posted by PleasantSurprise

Hold on a second, err wrong answer, she has every right to cancel, maybe its a complete turn off for her, maybe its painful, regardless, she gave him notice of the cancellation. She does not have to justify her reason. She called him and told him what the situation was, he has the option of rescheduling or seeing someone else, god damn were not talking about a scheduled cancer surgery were talking about getting his nut off.

Hold on a second, err wrong answer, she has every right to cancel, maybe its a complete turn off for her, maybe its painful, regardless, she gave him notice of the cancellation. She does not have to justify her reason. She called him and told him what the situation was, he has the option of rescheduling or seeing someone else, god damn were not talking about a scheduled cancer surgery were talking about getting his nut off. Originally Posted by dirty dog

If a provider tells a client that she is turned off and/or in pain... do you think the client would still want the appointment or raincheck it?

I'm not sure how turned off she was or how much pain was present, considering she personally suggested shower play....

Pardon me for not being specific but my client WAS given the option.

In fact I suggested we have shower play instead and he, like assumably most men, wanted his donations worth without the blood involved. Originally Posted by Persianlilly

I think there's another side of this story being left out. Hearing that she had to cancel it but yet she gave him options, just seems fishy. I can't tell if she posted this thread seeking advice, or because she was in the wrong and wanted people to tell her she was in the right.

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Kimd of pisses me off. I get points for refering to a guy getting his "Red Wings" Then to see a whole thead about the subject. Hopefully the pointslinger will stay away at least trolllling utr.

PS you are wrong to insinuate that Lilly doesnt have the right to cancel leaving the client "disapointed"... Guys who always are paying for this hobby will more often than not end up not happy. If someone always cancels and changes the excuses then they will only hurt their business as the word spreads.

On a serious note Lilly your posting on going UTR is probably the best advice you could give yourself. By keeping your personal issues off the board you will be better off and not damage your business.