...for me, if I really, really hit it off with a provider, most likely, I might already be on her " remember list " for the little things........if I think I'm just about there and I want to ramp it up with a particular lady........I offer to take them someplace they would probably like to go or a place maybe they can't afford....yeah, they like that.......A LOT!......and it's a BLAST!.......and never ask if you're not prepared to follow through and soon.
All of a sudden, a new realm of respect and trust evolves.
Just an opinion!