I think at $200 an hour in a Best Western in Houston..... the land of $180 and hour and NoTells with neon lighted headboards..... she is already a HighDollaHooker....
Darlin...
"Hottie" is a term reserved for the "under 25/135" set...... Men with money don't waste it on gals that walk, talk or look like you honey....
Lower your goals and enjoy some success... Setting yourself up for failure is no fun
Originally Posted by Whispers
While I agree that "Hottie" is generally reserved for the younger, smaller set...men with money will spend money on all sorts of ladies. We all know some prefer a lower class provider for one of many reasons.
Additionally, however, there are many men who prefer older and even larger women who are well-dressed, well-educated, present themselves well and enjoy pleasing men in exchange for "cash and prizes."
My problem with the OP is, like many stated before, that she just doesn't seem like she could fit in at an upscale cocktail party.
IMHO, a gym (though a good idea) won't do as much to help as going to some upscale places and observing how higher class ladies (not hookers) act and interact with rich men. And reading news magazines, watching news channels, attending cultural events to improve her knowledge base.
Some general hints:
Observe everything, like clothing and hair styles and go to Nordstrom. Ask a salesperson to help pick out a few very nicely tailored pieces from the clearance rack...then go to Marshall's or TJ Maxx and look for similar pieces. While at Nordstrom, get measured to find out your true and accurate bra size. Again, get one nice set and then look for similars at the outlets or online.
For hair, you need to go to Dry Bar at Uptown Park and have them wash and style your hair. It cost $35 and if you pay attention, you can learn to do it yourself. For $10 extra dollars, you can have then put in clip in extensions (any hottie's best friend). Go to Mari Hari to get color matched, then order them online for a 1/3 of the price.
Never go out without the nails done and a fresh pedicure. Keep a set of matching glue-on nails in your purse in case you break a nail and need a quick fix. Nothing says trashy like messed up nails. Blood red, French or pale pink nails are probably your best bet.
Drink Martinis...preferably a real one and not some silly apple tiny or chocotini...think classic cocktail. A sidecar is a great drink that will sometimes inspire a conversation. If you smoke (I suggest not but if you do), use a cigarette case. Have calling cards (personal business cards with your name, tel., email) printed on nice card stock with raised print, to give to people you meet.
Go to nice restaurant bars at happy hour...make friends with the bartenders. Chat them up and find out other nice places to go or when the bar gets full. Be friendly, but don't ever "work the bar." Tip well, but not obnoxiously.
In a short amount of time, if you are a quick study, you can greatly improve your social circle as well as your ability to attract more upscale clients. Most of the time at upscale bars, someone will offer to pay your tab or buy you a drink. Always accept, graciously and NEVER offer to buy a man a drink. It's unseemly.
Good luck.
LMx
PS. Not sure what you mean by "studying Real Estate Law at UH" but don't tell people that, it's simply not an accurate statement. To study law, you must be in Law School. I'm quite sure you aren't, so please stop saying something that makes you seem to be lying, when you may just simply be mistaken about the proper terminology for your coursework. Plus, you certainly can't travel 24/7 and attend any law school (much less a top tier one like UH).