What Intimidates You??

I've never been intimidated by a gal's height. I've seen one gal multiple times, that if she's not 6 ft., she's pretty close lol. The only thing that 'intimidates' me is the numbers after the colon in the 'donations' part of a gal's showcase. I'm mainly a FBSM and BNG guy these days. Every now and then I like to have a little more fun, but some donations are absurd, in my view. And as donations appear to be continually rising, I pretty much stick to the same, discreet, consistent, reliable, and quality gals. If not, I go back to the FBSM and BNG. And if it gets to the point where I'm priced out of the market, I'm completely ok with that.

The funny thing is, I saw your ad when you posted it. I clicked on your showcase, saw your legs and became immediately interested because your legs are a great attention grabber. Then I looked at the donation, became 'intimidated,' waved the white flag, and it was a behind the back John Stockton pass with no second thoughts. I keep a 'pending' list of gals who's donation 'intimidates' me. Some I have seen when they've had 'specials,' and come off the list. I've even gotten 'grandfathered' in at those rates, which is always nice. About a handful are still on the list. There's one gal, based on pics, is the gal I'm the most physically attracted to in the area, but she's still resting on that list. And will remain so unless she has a special that's too great to pass up or the doctor diagnoses me with 24 hours to live. In that case, I'm going out with a bang! lol. Too many other great gals in this area. I don't check this section much, but this was as blatant of a threAD as I've seen in a while. I'm not complaining though (it's understandable, and part of the business). Ijs
1st session with a new woman intimidates me especially uf she is super aggressive. Once we know each other though, 2nd + and have communicated, its on. I just like to know what a woman likes and that we click. Speaking of this I have a 2nd session to schedule soon. I can never play pornstar in a first session and it always leaves me feeling a bit off, so I make up for it later.
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Height doesn't intimidate me, but I just happen to prefer smaller women, so I generally don't approach Amazonian types.

What does intimidate me? Well, with apologies to those who aren't in the same demographic, I know that if you're a middle-aged white guy in the hobby, money is the great equalizer. There aren't many doors that won't open if I knock on them. But at the same time, I've had a few Wayne's World Alice Cooper moments ("I'm not worthy!"). One came when a woman I was seeing pointed to a new re Mustang outside the room and said a client had just given it to her. Said client also had just taken her on a trip, to Colorado, as I recall. I thought, "Shit, I can't compete with that!," and I haven't been back to see her.

The other is when a woman's price point and screening requirements indicate a high degree of exclusivity. I have visions of lawyers, CEOs, people who are members of the Petroleum or Fort Worth clubs, dancing in my head, and I think I'm probably not the sort of client she's looking for, even if I have the money and can pass her screening.

It doesn't make much sense, I know. As I said, money's a great equalizer. But there you have it ....
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One came when a woman I was seeing pointed to a new re Mustang outside the room and said a client had just given it to her. Said client also had just taken her on a trip, to Colorado, as I recall. I thought, "Shit, I can't compete with that!," and I haven't been back to see her. Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
Hahaha I would not feel intimidated but rather honored that I dont have to get her such gifts and she still see's me. Yes I know the guy that can afford a car did that yet I didnt have to do that and I get to experience the same things.
~ze~

But seriously,

When I was young and in my prime
I couldn't make the thing behave
Why every single morning it would stand
And watch me shave

But now that I am older
It sure gives me the blues
To have that thing hang down
And watch me shine my shoes.

If you had a bootleg 8track of Doug Clark and the Hot Nuts, you know what I mean...

Wimmin of any kind shouldn't cause real men anxiety, men cause their own anxiety.
~ze~


Wimmin of any kind shouldn't cause real men anxiety, men cause their own anxiety. Originally Posted by phildo
Phildo.... I agree with you again. That's F'n scary.
I'm not intimidated by tall women as long as they have a nice slender frame like yourself. I've had a couple of girlfriends that were taller than me. I love those long bodies. There's more to touch and play with!

I'm intimidated by mean bitchy women who never seem to enjoy our time together.
Height doesn't intimidate me, but I just happen to prefer smaller women, so I generally don't approach Amazonian types.

What does intimidate me? Well, with apologies to those who aren't in the same demographic, I know that if you're a middle-aged white guy in the hobby, money is the great equalizer. There aren't many doors that won't open if I knock on them. But at the same time, I've had a few Wayne's World Alice Cooper moments ("I'm not worthy!"). One came when a woman I was seeing pointed to a new re Mustang outside the room and said a client had just given it to her. Said client also had just taken her on a trip, to Colorado, as I recall. I thought, "Shit, I can't compete with that!," and I haven't been back to see her.

The other is when a woman's price point and screening requirements indicate a high degree of exclusivity. I have visions of lawyers, CEOs, people who are members of the Petroleum or Fort Worth clubs, dancing in my head, and I think I'm probably not the sort of client she's looking for, even if I have the money and can pass her screening.

It doesn't make much sense, I know. As I said, money's a great equalizer. But there you have it .... Originally Posted by Sir Lancehernot
It's not a competition, you know. No need to be intimidated by that. But I understand. The same thing happened to me. Feeling intimidated comes from our own insecurities. With me, for example, I had a new client visited me about a month ago. When I opened the door, my jaw dropped! He's soooooo good looking...I thought "What is he doing with me??" I felt sooo intimidated. When he took off his shirt, my jaw dropped again!! I worried that he wouldn't like the way I looked. That he was too good for me.
He came back a week later and then again.
Phildo.... I agree with you again. That's F'n scary. Originally Posted by pfmtony
LOL I've thought of changing my avatar, but no compromises offered. I'm not campaigning or buying votes. F that, that ain't me.

And yes I definitely will leave. I keep my word. Originally Posted by pfmtony
So your "word" is worthless ALL the time, right? I guess that although "campaigning" for votes "ain't you," lying IS you, right?
Chicks-with-Dicks. I once ran the breadth of Thailand in under an hour!
I know I intimidate people frequently as I stand 6'10" (six-ten!). I.m a real softy though and find humor usually helpful to defuse their anxiety.
Chicks-with-Dicks. I once ran the breadth of Thailand in under an hour! Originally Posted by Stanfeld
ROTFLMAO!

That is hilarious!
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It's not a competition, you know. No need to be intimidated by that. But I understand. The same thing happened to me. Feeling intimidated comes from our own insecurities. With me, for example, I had a new client visited me about a month ago. When I opened the door, my jaw dropped! He's soooooo good looking...I thought "What is he doing with me??" I felt sooo intimidated. When he took off his shirt, my jaw dropped again!! I worried that he wouldn't like the way I looked. That he was too good for me.
He came back a week later and then again. Originally Posted by samantha thom
You did a good job of hiding it. I did not pick up on it in the slightest.
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I Loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee e tall girls!!!! I’m a short guy, who has never been afraid to climb big trees. The one thing that did intimidate me though, was I requested to see as 6ft ’2 provider who assumes I was there for strap on play because I asked her if she had some toys. She answered the door with a 10 incher around her waist and Family!! When I saw that big ass thing it scared the shit out of me. My face must have looked funny, because that lady busted out laughing. Without spur-of-the-moment, I hurried up and told her the toys were for her. I won’t fight with your starfish you don’t fight with mine. Shittttttttttttttttttttttttttt t!
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Tall women are hottttttt!! Height is irrelevant when you are supine or on your knees Originally Posted by whitechocolate
All women are the same height laying down