It's not you, it's me...

I have always wondered how do you girls switch from a provider to a girl friend without the new boy friend ever knowing what you used to do. With the internet there are so many places that your pics or other information is saved.

Tracy the way he is acting tells me he found out or he is married and he got caught.

You are better off if he did not have the balls to do it in person.

LOL It definitely was NOT the kids. He has two of his own. I think its more the distance thing and I was being a really bad girl this summer, going out a lot and I have a lot of guy friends... I think it's just him being insecure and even though I would try to reassure him that I only had eyes for him, I don't think it mattered.

Oh well, onto the next!

I have always wondered how do you girls switch from a provider to a girl friend without the new boy friend ever knowing what you used to do. With the internet there are so many places that your pics or other information is saved. Originally Posted by travelerman

The same way the married hobbyist does it. Live two lives.

Tracy hope you are feeling better today. I gotta agree with most of the comments here. He's attitude show nothing more that immaturity and fear of commitment. You don't need a guy like that by your side anyway, think about it

In another note, hope we can meet soon
Have a great weekend

LOL ...........

Oh well, onto the next! Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

That-a-girl! There's a saying that goes kinda like this ... "the pool of women in the world are like an apple tree. But, the best and sweetest ones are at the top. Most men will never know since they're afraid to climb the tree because they might fall. One day there will be the one that makes the climb to taste the sweetest fruit on the tree"

Oh! I like that quote Maxx.

Travelerman... it's quite simple especially if you don't live together. For one, I have a hobby number.... a different email address.... and I wouldn't use the same photos on here that I would send to him. Come on now, you guys do the same thing, but a lot of ya'll are married so it has to be 100x harder for you guys than us I would suspect.

I highly HIGHLY doubt he would have found out. None of my personal friends know what I do. I think he just is commitment-phobic, just as I am and the distance thing and not knowing if I am fucking other guys (which I am, but he has no idea) got to him. The more I think of it, the more I see signs of him being really jealous. So I am definitely better off without.

Now, who wants to come play? :P

I've already volunteered once... Now I just look desperate... Oh what the hell... Pick me pick me!

Was Tracy's friend Aunt Flo?

Intimidated by a sexy woman is not cool. I cant wait to meet a SINGLE guy that can handle me. Keep your head up. Im late in this post... so im sure you're good now...but i like using keep your head up lately.
Ciao sexy lady!
KitKat

not knowing if I am fucking other guys (which I am, but he has no idea) got to him. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

I agree you are probably better off without him but it does not sound like you were to committed either. Not only do you hobby (which could be argued is work) but you have your "boy toy". Sounds like you are both making the right choice to move on.

Even the most causal observer would agree that you are the perfect catch.

So this is truly baffling.

Tracy hey if you need a new boy friend I will fly with you. I am very understanding.

Travelerman... it's quite simple especially if you don't live together. For one, I have a hobby number.... a different email address.... and I wouldn't use the same photos on here that I would send to him. Come on now, you guys do the same thing, but a lot of ya'll are married so it has to be 100x harder for you guys than us I would suspect.

I would think it would be easier for us since we for one do not have our pics on here. Yes I have a hobby phone, no calls going to regular phone (maybe sometimes for my regulars), yes a separate e-mail that I can only get if I log into gmail. So maybe or maybe not. My biggest worry is a photo getting taged with me in it that goes up on Facebook.

Haha, me me me me...J/K, Hope all works out for you. some guys cant handle an attractive smart woman that seems to have her sh-- together.

Good luck...

LOL I dunno. I mean, I'm far from perfect, but I'm working on it!