Talking Dirty During Sex - What turns you on?

I can understand what you are saying. I love all aspects of women. I can adjust to what turns them on. One of the best parts about older women is that they aren't afraid to tell you what turns them on. When I say "older women", I mean those closer to my own age. Alot of the younger gals play the game about what turns them on and are still trying to figure it out themselves. There are always the few that are the exception, but like I said, "the few". If they like the dirty smut talk, I can provide. If they like erotic talk, I can adjust. To me if it turns them on, it gets me all that more excited. It all part of the foreplay and during. The hotter she gets, the hotter the whole encounter gets. I try to read her and if she feels that certain language is demeaning, I can usually pick up on that and chose what I say accordingly. I can turn it up, down, sideways. I'm very flexible that way!

Oh boy, am I ever a prude.

I'm afraid I seem to be hardwired against employing profanely explicit terminology or terms ordinarily found insulting or demeaning. When I hear it, it is jarring and shocking and can be a turn-off. I can type them, but saying them sounds ... unnatural.

In fairness, I realize I can't demean anyone. A person can only demean him/herself. And something one woman might see as an intense insult, another might find an incredible turn-on. Even if I were to call a woman the most insulting and demeaning things in the world, it would not change her intrinsic value.

I've had some girlfriends over time who liked to talk dirty, and it is something I merely tolerated because I admired other things about them.

Erotic talk, on the other hand, can be a serious turn-on for me.

I guess it is like the difference between pornography and erotica -- only in words. Originally Posted by Laurentius

All of you dirty, naughty little girls.

Bring it!

I enjoy hearing how much better I am than Deerhunter, Big Jake, and CPI3.8.

If it keeps me from being bitten or scratched I'm all for verbalization.

biting and being scratched can be part of the fun! Even some ass spanking and hair pulling too, but just in the right degrees of course!!

If it keeps me from being bitten or scratched I'm all for verbalization. Originally Posted by oden

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm bad--thats the way I like it....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

I know that of course!! And I can speak from first hand (pun intended) experience!!

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm bad--thats the way I like it....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Originally Posted by DallasRain

I love when a man talks real dirty and tells me to take that ***k! I just reply oh yes **ck me harder...

I think for me, the best part of talking dirty is when it seems natural or unrehearsed.. it could be as simple as "ooohhh baby.. that's good.. keep doing it.." , "don't stop..harder.. " or "i'm ready.. put it inside me".. actually most anything impromptu and in the moment is sexy and a turn on. It has to sound real.. (means.. she's not filing her nails, yawning or watching reality tv on the tube or saying "i'm coming" while answering her cell..)

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm bad--thats the way I like it....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Originally Posted by DallasRain

Back off girl! You've had him, now it's my turn!

Oh yes, give me that nice hard cock baby. Oh, fuck me. Oh you're making me cum. Oh yes, fuck me hard baby. You like that sweet little pussy? Originally Posted by anova444

I'll have that please

mmmmmmmmmmmm Anova babe..I like the way you talk!!!

Tiff I will let ya have him...for just a little bit{lol}

Okay, no fighting here unless we get the jello out! There's plenty of me to go around!

Back off girl! You've had him, now it's my turn! Originally Posted by Tiffany Cums

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm-----I love sharing sexy guys with sexy girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!woooohoooo oooooooooooo