Damn, a newbie that should remember how to download porn.
Name me a doctor, lawyer, pharmacist, movie theater, mechanic, grocery store, etc. ... that does not require payment up front. Do you tell your attorney, or doctor, "fuck you I will go elsewhere?" Paying up front is the risks we take in life. Too many respected fucktards with hundreds of OKs on P411 have shorted ladies and done other unsavory things. You are not a special case, you are simply a fucktard that will probably have to get a vacuum cleaner in order to get your dick sucked. I hear Dysons really suck good.
Originally Posted by pyramider
Actually, I've had quite a few lawyers bill me monthly, based on work they performed the previous month. I imagine, however, if I was a new client, or an unknown quantity, I'd likely be asked to put up a retainer.
The same goes for the hobby. Our reputation is like our credit score. If you have a good one, you're less likely (if a man) to be asked to pay up front. Similarly, if a guy who is relatively unknown is seeing a woman with a solid rep, then he probably has little to worry about by paying before playing.
If I was seeing random backpage girls, I would likely have a problem putting money on the dresser when I walk in the door. I don't, so am not overly concerned on the rare occasion a verified provider asks me to do so.