"First Impressions - Gentlemen you're thoughts?"

Thanks for all the great replies, I enjoyed reading them

A thoughfully designed and constructed setting speaks volumes about the intent of the provider who put it together. Hurray for those willing to go the extra distance!

That said, confronted with the type of setting described by the OP, the visitor's expectations would rise and a "normal" hobby encounter would seem lackluster compared to the expectation created.

If you give extra thought to the type of sheets going on the bed, give some extra thought to the activities that will take place between the sheets! ijs

2 things that make a difference - appearance of the in-call and appearance of the provider. When I first started I had certain expectation I assumed all providers would live up to. I found myself disappointed time and time again, both BP and Escorts.com (back when it existed) girls. Now when meeting a new provider I book a short session as a "meet and greet" which allows me to see how she treats the date. I repeat if they take pride in their personal appearance and in-call appearance. I hobby to live out fantasies, not solely to bust a nut.

Quality of the incall matters. Greatly. I've seen some wonderful ladies, but won't be making return visits due to incall issues. Low rate hotels, roommates, family, pets, etc, and the list goes on. I'm more than happy to compensate for a nicer,safer place.

I tend to go with nicer hotels. I always take a nice soft scented room spray made by Yankee Candle company. I have in fact been "busted by house keeping for candles" I try to remain as invisible as possible so I no longer use candles. At my Dallas in call I change out bedding often so that if a gentleman sees me the next visit is not only different bedding sometimes even the curtains/ drapes/ area rug . I have often wondered if men notice anything but the outfit I am popping out of.

I go for getting as nice as I can get for what I want to pay....i'm usually in a decent 3 star or nice 3.5 star but I get lucky with an upscale 4 star on occassion (STL or KCMO for examples you can get a 4 star for pretty cheap it's crazy). "Lowest" i'll go out of my way to stay in are some of the hotels that fall under 2.5 star classification (some of the "better ones" like Hampton Inn & Suites for example etc). I try to add personal touches to the room when possible. Never a dumpy hotel, motel or notel.

If I walked into that my first thought would be that someone had gone to some extra effort and that this is going to be a great session. A lady that pays attention to those kinds of details likely pays it to other details. And if the atmosphere makes HER feel it, I am already ahead of the game. Originally Posted by watchoutthegameisrigged

That's exactly right. I feel sexier and happier in a nice setting. I have been setting up my incalls for years.

For me, if a women takes the time to decorate a hotel room, that shows me a lot.
Originally Posted by sinkerswim

I agree. Just as if I was going on a "free" date and I expected we may be ending the night at my place, I would make sure everything was clean and romantic before I went on my date.

It's exactly the same for my clients ... I want to impress them. I want them to know that I care and I take their satisfaction seriously.

This is my current incall with some Christmas touches ...