Alice Desiree double booked me!

From what I could gather. The initial appointment was made though a pm. She gave him her number through a pm. Apparently, he also sent her his number by pm instead of texting her back. Then when she tried to contact him later by text, she dialed the wrong number which she admitted. You have to remember that she is new and attractive and is probably getting bombarded with a ton of PMs and text right now. Not getting a return text by 8 pm to confirm, she scheduled with someone else. She admitted her mistake.

Apparently he threatened to post these alerts on her if she didn't give him a discount or give him what he wanted. When she refused, he followed through by posting in two different cities and four different forums. I think if he had handled it better he would have had better results.

Nothing against the op because I understand his frustration. It has happened to me a couple of time. It was how he handled it that raises some concerns.

I read both sides and wondered why she could not re-connect with him and why she would even need to if they had made an agreement on a time after she verified him I suppose. Then I done a little research on his past posting and saw no reason that he would suddenly go off the rails. So I sent him a PM and he said he never threatened her or verbally abused her just told her he would report her. To me that is not a threat. Had he not told her he would report it she could say that he blindsided her. I don't see that he slandered her or said anything that was not true by her own addition. In any of his post. I would like to see the text that transpired between them, then we would know exactly what happened.

Well Jessica, you know I tried to see you one day. You were busy earlier in the day, and I couldn't make it later. It happens, right? I would still love to meet you someday, and the way you handled everything calmly is one of the reasons.

Stay calm folks, we all have many other obligations that come before fun. I like to play at lunch time. My boss sometimes likes surprise lunch meetings. I usually know 24 hrs in advance, but I can't control him.

In my experience, everytime I've ever been patient and calm, it has always paid off.

I tried seeing a provider yesterday that I have seen before. It didn't work out. She couldn't get to her incall and ready in time. We postponed. She ended up nite making that time either. Guess what, I will still see her again, and I still like her as a person. She even offered a discount next time. I wont take it. What I will do is give her more notice to make things easier for her.

And I'm going to say that for a very young lady the OP handled this pretty well. But this is also one of the reasons younger newer ones rarely get my attention. Originally Posted by pfmtony

Your patience is super sexy.

Thank you pfm that was really flattering

What's really upsetting to me, aside from the fact that Alice is my friend, is that when YOU (the client) cancels on us last minute, and then we reschedule, we as the providers don't demand any extra money from you.

What if I spent 2 hours of my time driving and getting ready AND paid for a hotel room, then my client no showed or messaged me at the last second that he can't make it or forgot or whatever.

I would tell him hey that's cool lets reschedule(unless it has happened several times consecutively)....but when has a provider EVER on the FIRST meeting (or lack there of) said "oh you wasted my time, so I'm gonna need an additional donation next time we see each other"

I haven't been doing this forever, but I know that's not how this business works, and a member who has been at this years longer than me should DEFINITELY know better!

What's really upsetting to me, aside from the fact that Alice is my friend, is that when YOU (the client) cancels on us last minute, and then we reschedule, we as the providers don't demand any extra money from you.

What if I spent 2 hours of my time driving and getting ready AND paid for a hotel room, then my client no showed or messaged me at the last second that he can't make it or forgot or whatever.

I would tell him hey that's cool lets reschedule(unless it has happened several times consecutively)....but when has a provider EVER on the FIRST meeting (or lack there of) said "oh you wasted my time, so I'm gonna need an additional donation next time we see each other"

I haven't been doing this forever, but I know that's not how this business works, and a member who has been at this years longer than me should DEFINITELY know better! Originally Posted by Daphne-Hart

Girl dont get upset, deep down we are still all kids at heart. Stuff like this happens, it how you deal with them that makes you a grown up. Alice held her own and I think she got alot of respect from us all.