A slow sensual hand job will give me a more intense orgasm than a BJ but a mix is even better. Has to be a slow build up with a good bit of edging and access to NE/SE. A nice flimsy sundress I can reach under and eventually remove is a great plus. 2-hour session with the first hour dedicated to a quality massage with occasional teasing and the second hour for the S in FBSM.
Time to do some searches under reviews.