Should I put BBFS in a review?

Hi All - Thanks for all the comments and helpful advice - and even for the snark and snide comments and PMs. This has been a learning experience for me. I am pretty shocked at the sheer volume of PMs I have received wanting to know who this provider is so guys can seek her out. I was under the impression that BBFS was considered a taboo in this community and that it would be a public service to provide this information to the community. But now I see that opinion is apparently much more divided on this topic, and that I would just create a feeding frenzy with this provider among the type of people who seek this out. To each his own, I'm not going to be one to judge, but this is also not a type of behavior that I want to be responsible for facilitating.

I also very much appreciate the comments stating that people will assume that my next review is the provider in question. I had not thought of that until I read it here, but now I can see why that could / would be true.

So I have decided not to post a review of this provider, and I intend to go into lurk mode for a while. I was on here and the predecessor to this site for years before I wrote my first review. I only write reviews every once in a long while anyway. So I probably ought to just go quiet for a while to prevent any controversies on here.

Thanks again for the helpful advice. For those of you who think I am "wussing out" - perhaps I am. But that is my choice. This is the last I intend to post on this matter and I don't intend to respond to PM's asking for further information.

Peace out.

So I have decided not to post a review of this provider, and I intend to go into lurk mode for a while. I was on here and the predecessor to this site for years before I wrote my first review. I only write reviews every once in a long while anyway. So I probably ought to just go quiet for a while to prevent any controversies on here. Originally Posted by bigslickcooter

Thanks Mojo, I knew this gif would come in handy soon....

For those of you who think I am "wussing out" - perhaps I am. But that is my choice. Originally Posted by bigslickcooter

Dang, that certainly de-escalated quickly....

Insert anti-Ron Bergundy pic here >>>

Interesting...

Originally Posted by ManSlut

Well, I will certainly keep an eye on who you've reviewed in the past and who your review in the future...likely to avoid both. Thanks for the heads-up.

Bigslick, you asked for advice and it looks like you made up your mind before posting this. Or...you were surprised that everyone wants to know who she was. Surely you knew that going in.

If anything comes out of your post, it's this: Don't bring this up guys, if you're not prepared to do the right thing...protecting a Provider is no substitute for protecting against the possibility of STDs.

You pussy'''"

You pussy'''" Originally Posted by Itrain

No shit. Fucking drama queen. IE means information exchange you idiot. So much for us sticking together.

I never cease to be disappointed in the quality of the responses to some posts. This guy is trying to figure out how to do the right thing, or at least the best thing. And he is bombarded by the brain-dead who don't know how to post if it isn't malicious, insulting, and downright embarassing. I know this isn't a place where high morality is necessarily in abundance, but it does seem to be a place where scumbags really congregate. I was told, "Better to keep your mouth closed and let others wonder if you're an idiot than to open it and remove all doubt." Some of you haven't figured that out.

Post the review... Post the review... We want the review... LOL

Hi All - Thanks for all the comments and helpful advice - and even for the snark and snide comments and PMs. This has been a learning experience for me. I am pretty shocked at the sheer volume of PMs I have received wanting to know who this provider is so guys can seek her out. I was under the impression that BBFS was considered a taboo in this community and that it would be a public service to provide this information to the community. But now I see that opinion is apparently much more divided on this topic, and that I would just create a feeding frenzy with this provider among the type of people who seek this out. To each his own, I'm not going to be one to judge, but this is also not a type of behavior that I want to be responsible for facilitating.

I also very much appreciate the comments stating that people will assume that my next review is the provider in question. I had not thought of that until I read it here, but now I can see why that could / would be true.

So I have decided not to post a review of this provider, and I intend to go into lurk mode for a while. I was on here and the predecessor to this site for years before I wrote my first review. I only write reviews every once in a long while anyway. So I probably ought to just go quiet for a while to prevent any controversies on here.

Thanks again for the helpful advice. For those of you who think I am "wussing out" - perhaps I am. But that is my choice. This is the last I intend to post on this matter and I don't intend to respond to PM's asking for further information.

Peace out. Originally Posted by bigslickcooter

I say hobby on. Eccie is not the sole venue to where you can relish providers and sexy ladies. And frankly, it's none of our business, whether you put it out there or not. Good luck, and play safely!

Well, I guess there's that.

how many of you actually thought he was going to i.d. the lady? these threads always end up the same.

how many of you actually thought he was going to i.d. the lady? these threads always end up the same. Originally Posted by Bluesplyr

and the ladies know that.

It would be far shorter list to compile the providers that HAVEN'T offered or initiated BB than those that have... and that includes a lot of "body rub" girls and even LMT's and yes, a lot of your ATF's on here. Anyone that thinks any provider hasn't offered or participated in BBFS with a client is fooling only them-self. This is a very intimate business and if a provider is deeply attracted to a client... we'll shit and BB happens, I guarantee it.