San Antonio ROS Private or Not Private???

Still Looking, with all due respect, polls are so Myspace. Originally Posted by flinde

I think you're right but they can be entertaining as well at times. Glad to see you back!

Come on really? Are you serious? You mean to tell me "you" couldn't tell that the post was ROS in the open? One would have to be an idiot not to realize that! And it was obviously reported by others that realized it. That's why JJ fixed it.

Now the only question is should Cara's rebuttal be edited? The Mods have made their decision and it's done. I don't agree but it is what it is! Time to move on.
Originally Posted by Still Looking

So, I guess I'm an idiot. I just went back and looked at the screen shot I saved of the review...

Actually, the way it appeared, it did was not obvious that it was ROS from my view. It just looked like he wrote more than most in the last section. It didn't say anything like "private" or "the Rest of the Story" or anything. I only realized it was ROS when someone accused Cara of wronging accessing ROS info. Since we ladies can't see the ROS, we don't know what it would look like or what kind of info is contained therein. It really wasn't a horrible review, so I just thought he was trying to give Cara some constructive criticism.

It seemed odd but not obvious that it was meant to be privé...

That's just it SKF... I'm not try to convince you of anything. No one has said "YOU" are moving around threADS. No one has said "YOU" are playing favorites. No one has said that "YOU" are closing threADS. Are Whispers and I the first ones to complain about these issues? Yet you cruise the forum looking for every opportunity to WHITE KNIGHT for Mokoa. Do you think so little of him that he can't fight his own battles? Mokoa has been around a long time and if he wants to sit back then just let him. Or is there something "your" not telling us?

Golden showers? Hey I don't judge people if that's "your" thing by all means have at it! Me... I'll stick to the "Golden Rule". I don't know HandyGiraffe but it was obvious a mistake occurred when he wrote his review. Like every other member here who writes reviews the ROS is expected to be private (Notwithstanding the WK'S who have nothing better to do that give the ROS to the providers and the providers who have a male account that secure it themselves) then suddenly here in San Antonio the mods are going to let everyone talk about it in an open forum. Well "I" personally think its wrong.

SKF you can make all the videos you want and try and make Whispers and myself look like bad board members all you want. Hey you certainly have the right to your opinion. But "you" can't deny the things that have been brought forward. In your own words "you’re not going to shove it back up the horse’s ass". You of all people have witnessed both in the open forums and in the ML where others have come forward complaining of these very issues. Specifically favoritism.

ROS in the open.... lots of ladies voting? Originally Posted by Still Looking

Thanck you for proving my point.

All this was simply more ammunition for you and Whispers to use in your crusade.

Got it.

I appreciate your confirmation.

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Somebody is feeling a bit testy, eh SKF?

"Testy"? Nahh.

"Needs a hug", is what popped into my head.

On a different note;
am I the only one who finds LilMynx69
SOincrediblyfaKingSexy? She makes me thinck bad things that causes my pants to tighten...(looks down)...See?

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So, I guess I'm an idiot. I just went back and looked at the screen shot I saved of the review...

Actually, the way it appeared, it did was not obvious that it was ROS from my view. It just looked like he wrote more than most in the last section. It didn't say anything like "private" or "the Rest of the Story" or anything. I only realized it was ROS when someone accused Cara of wronging accessing ROS info. Since we ladies can't see the ROS, we don't know what it would look like or what kind of info is contained therein. It really wasn't a horrible review, so I just thought he was trying to give Cara some constructive criticism.

It seemed odd but not obvious that it was meant to be privé... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

When you look at a review does it not in fact not just go from Physical Description to recommendation? Do you ever see ROS?

Thanck you for proving my point.

All this was simply more ammunition for you and Whispers to use in your crusade.

Got it.

I appreciate your confirmation.

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Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

"Testy"? Nahh.

"Needs a hug", is what popped into my head.

On a different note;
am I the only one who finds LilMynx69
SOincrediblyfaKingSexy? She makes me thinck bad things that causes my pants to tighten...(looks down)...See?

Originally Posted by SofaKingFun

Avoid and ignore the real issues. I get it. Let's be careful they point people for hijacking threADS. Opps my bad... I forgot certain people are exempt from the rules / guidelines!

This thread is about ROS and keeping it private. But I can see why LilMynx69 could sidetrack you! LOL

I have read a ton of reviews. Sometimes there is a ton of info in the physical description section. Maybe in those cases it's a case of a guy without premium access who wants to put more info out there, I don't know. Granted, in this situation, it seem like more than I'd ever read.

However, it it wasn't captioned or anything. It was just a bunch of info in the Physical description section. Like I said, I kept a screenshot, something I do here frequently if I'm going to comment on something since I work offline at times. Besides a bunch of info, there wasn't anything that said Private or ROS.

So, I still don't think it's fair to say SweetCara knew. By her tone, I don't think she knew for certain.

SofaKingDoMeAlready, you look hot in your tight pants!

I have read a ton of reviews. Sometimes there is a ton of info in the physical description section. Maybe in those cases it's a case of a guy without premium access who wants to put more info out there, I don't know. Granted, in this situation, it seem like more than I'd ever read.

However, it it wasn't captioned or anything. It was just a bunch of info in the Physical description section. Like I said, I kept a screenshot, something I do here frequently if I'm going to comment on something since I work offline at times. Besides a bunch of info, there wasn't anything that said Private or ROS.

So, I still don't think it's fair to say SweetCara knew. By her tone, I don't think she knew for certain. Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Hummmm I think both Cara & you have both been around long enough that if you wanted to see or read a ROS you could figure out how to do so. Playing the "I didn't know it was ROS" card... ah ok. So perhaps it was a LONG 'Physical Description" or "Recommendation"? PLEAZE!

It really wasn't a horrible review, so I just thought he was trying to give Cara some constructive criticism.

It seemed odd but not obvious that it was meant to be privé... Originally Posted by LilMynx69

I was not overly harsh...her response essentially confirmed the review, her remembrance of the discussion topics was in variance but the rest was spot on...The review format doesn't really lend itself to significant info outside the ROS section---unless someone wants to add it in the activities section or the hair and length section. I try to add as much in the public section so that those who are trying to use the review system for info can make a limited informed decision without full premium access ..

As for Cara...she is a sweetheart and I can honestly say that if she had been dressed sexy and "made up" she would be a knock out. In fairness to those who make arrangements to play with a provider and travel across town to do it on limited time: At least put real photos up or be willing to share once you are ready to set an appointment...be on time for the play date..be enthusiastic and be ready to play. If you do those things it will generally bring about an enthusiastically POSITIVE review from me and any other fair minded visitor.

As for the general question about whether or not the ROS should be private or not....Lets start by saying that the review process is one of the reasons that the board appeals to many in the hobby....if they are not real and factual then it is simply a waste of time...

* If it is private the OP can say what they really think without fear of hurting feelings....and give their actual appraisal of the session..but they are not always kept private and I know of a number of situations where private content was shared outside the ROS.

*if it isn't private the OP will probably withhold statements that might bring on drama or retribution if he made them....withholding the info might do a disservice to others.....and defeats the purpose of a fair and honest review.

HandyG, you have handled this faux pas quite nicely. Even your no review was fair and honest. Absolutely NOT overly harsh. You're a great guy in my book!

HandyG, you have handled this faux pas quite nicely. Even your no review was fair and honest. Absolutely NOT overly harsh. You're a great guy in my book! Originally Posted by LilMynx69

He is a heck of a nice guy! Is it just me or is coed changing? There is something about the first page....can't put my finger on it!?

This poll sure has been interest! Having ROS in the open sure got a lot of votes!