FBU, I'm sure your post scares more away than it appeals to. I know a few ladies won't see me because of mine, but many many more are curious to meet and see if I'm genuine.
Originally Posted by pfmtony
I think this is the key to the whole thing. I'm not trying to scare anyone away or to attract anyone. I just posted about who I am and what I want. If providers don't fit that mold or otherwise aren't interested in that, I have no problem with it. I'm not trying to talk anyone into anything that they don't want to do. They have their comfort levels and I have mine. The way some of these folks have reacted is pure silliness, IMO. As if the comfort level of the ladies is paramount, and we should be willing to give up our own or face ridicule.
Fortunately, there are plenty of ladies with whom my comfort level is compatible. Those ladies will gain a reliable and regular customer, and we'll both be happy. That's what is happening and that's what I wanted. It's a shame that some people feel obligated to reply with such negativity, but I guess that's just who they are. No harm, no foul. This is just a forum, after all.