What would I like, what makes me cum? Lets see I can cum by just being touched if I am in love with the man, gentle caressing, being made love to all day with words and touch and not just in bed.
As what kind of man turns me on or what I want. He has to be secure in who he is, financially secure, work with me as a partner but still be able to take to control and tell me no and stand by it. Looks, not sure. I think its more about chemistry, if I get the butterflies in my belly then he is the one.
Hows that.