What does "open menu" mean to you.

Really? So are you dressed when the guy shows up? You find it embarrassing to take your cloths off while listening to a little music? Shake you cute butt a little?

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I could answer the door with nothing on but pigtails and still strip tease dancing just like dirty talk makes me feel funny....Cute little quick but shaking ok but full on dance like in True lies nope maybe because I dance more like Elaine on Seinfeld.

I'm with Scarlett. The word "menu" used in this context is so crass in my opinion. I prefer "activities". That said, "open menu" just seems like they're saying it's ok to put it in their butt if you've got the money. Personally, I like to be upfront about what I offer so it's both clear to everyone, and so I do not have to spend time answering the tons of questions a phrase like that would no doubt bring.

I could answer the door with nothing on but pigtails and still strip tease dancing just like dirty talk makes me feel funny....Cute little quick but shaking ok but full on dance like in True lies nope maybe because I dance more like Elaine on Seinfeld. Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

I agree if the guy brings a poll, light display and boom box... well that's something different. I'm talking about just setting a mood. Little music while "SLOWLY" taking off what ever you might have on is sexy!

I could answer the door with nothing on but pigtails ... Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

Oh, I want to see that! No need for you to dance!

Well mine is "mostly open" then minus bbfs or letting someone pee, shit or vomit on me ... and no animals.

I agree if the guy brings a poll, light display and boom box... well that's something different. I'm talking about just setting a mood. Little music while "SLOWLY" taking off what ever you might have on is sexy!

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Hell if he goes as far as to bring a pole and boombox...well my inner stripper may just come out...I love pole dancing

Cute little quick but shaking ok but full on dance like in True lies nope maybe because I dance more like Elaine on Seinfeld. Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

This is where the confusion is happening lol. SL correct me if I am wrong but strip tease to me means show some breast without showing any nipple while taking off your bra and maybe just a little motion. Or turning around while sliding your panties down and just shaking it a bit. That's to me is more or less a slight tease show not what everyone is thinking as far as True Lies with the pole in the room and falling on your ass lol.

Back to this Steak thing lol. I would love a good steak with a nice BJ afterwards that sounds great to me. Who is offering this special lol.

Back to this Steak thing lol. I would love a good steak with a nice BJ afterwards that sounds great to me. Who is offering this special lol. Originally Posted by Austins1hobby

Wanna help me with the strip tease thing that will lead to a deep oral occurrence and Ill cook you a steak...yes I said COOK not order or microwave ....

When I see open menu I think greek and NQNS. I don't interpret it to mean bareback anything.

If you see a provider say something like "'I have a pretty open menu but I dont offer striptease" what do u think that means.

A hobbyist just told me be careful because people associate open menu with bbfs.

Opinions?

(Btw its not happening I have my lifestyles right here) Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

I believe it means open to fetishes, GFE, BBBJCIMNQNS, and BBFS.

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Thanks to everyone for their input ive been around but a pro can learn something new everyday right?

Thanks to everyone for their input ive been around but a pro can learn something new everyday right? Originally Posted by NikkiWhite

Oh if it was only Striptease dancing

Wow, I'm glad you posted this now, Miss Nikki, as I've used the term basically to simplify having to list all the things I've done that were reviewed on aspd thus not available to newer community members. IMO, it refers to everything other than BBFS which is a Hobby NO-NO & death sentence to providers in general.

It does apply to being fetish friendly in my case. There are so many different levels of fetish play that it's a case by case request anyway. I'm also Greek friendly as I'm just a FREAK and fucking love it. *shrugs* To each his own.

So, I skipped a few pages of posts as I saw there was a real difference of opinion as to what "Open Menu" included. I'm going to suggest that we all assume (yeah, I know) that BBFS is not advertised unless you're a troublemaker &/or idiot. Greek is considered a fairly common request despite not being a common offering. Fetish is basically another realm of availability and as such, is requested specifically by the hobbyist when contacting a provider. With that said, can we in the Austin community agree that Open Menu refers to all basic activities including Greek but leaving Fetish as case by case?

What's the point of a question if it doesn't have a resolution, eh?

Looks like a great definition for me kat !