Hobbyist how many attempts before you move on to the next provider?

I reply to everything especially PMs!! Its rude not to even if its to say, "I'm sorry I missed your PM." I even answer texts. I do not return phone calls from numbers that I don't know unless a message is left. Common courtesy goes a long way!!

I will NOT respond to a text message if over three hours has passed. I do try to answer all emails or PMs, and I do find myself having to look through my gmail to find missing P411 requests. And you may think I'm rude love, but I do not even have a second to come on to tell everyone that requests a second of me a "I'm sorry, I'm not available" message. I will not pick up my phone, answer emails, etc if certain RW folk are in front of me. I do not need questions if someone should happen to glance at my phone while responding.

If I am online, I do try and respond to every message while I'm online. The only messages that I get that are deleted are ones that are over two weeks old. Space won't permit me to keep every message. And I realize that the guys like instant gratification which is why I post that I'm available on the SNAT.

I'm sure every provider does things different. We have a wide range of girls and I personally am not the one to sit in a motel room all day waiting on men to call me. If I do not have calls or appointments, I work on other things. All I can do is be honest about what I do and what I feel that I can handle, and let you gentlemen decide if I'm worth the "hassle" so to speak. My reviews are nothing but YES so... you make your own decision.

...I am surprised they don't have one for the other smart phones ...
oh duh, you're like me... cheap hobby cell, yeah that 7777 88 222 55 7777 Originally Posted by fun2come

Or,

876-5309

and,

777-9311

I will NOT respond to a text message if over three hours has passed. I do try to answer all emails or PMs, and I do find myself having to look through my gmail to find missing P411 requests. And you may think I'm rude love, but I do not even have a second to come on to tell everyone that requests a second of me a "I'm sorry, I'm not available" message. I will not pick up my phone, answer emails, etc if certain RW folk are in front of me. I do not need questions if someone should happen to glance at my phone while responding. Originally Posted by Tracy Auburn

I don't think you are rude at all I just wanted some provider input so some hobbyist could see why a PM may go unanswered. Thanks for the info

Not you love, the gal... :P

I don't have a separate phone... I have Google voice... But here's an example just so some gents and some ladies could get a better picture.

For example... the beginning of this month I started out alright.. worked almost everyday. But then that first weekend I didn't work Friday through all the way to the next Friday because of other obligations. I come back to Eccie, P411 and my emails and have X amount in each one... not even mentioning my missed calls and texts that I won't answer because I respect that some gents don't have other phones or GV... but in regards to the emails, should I start from the oldest first or from the newest? I would say newest first because as stated before, gents are usually short notice and can't schedule in advance. So now I'm busy with appointments I just set, plus my RW .... can you see how some emails may get missed?

I'm just being honest with how I do things. I hope that clears up a little confusion and gives some peeps better insight.

Mine first, then any order will do, sweets...

In this biz, I'd do last in first out.... but I always would clear out the queue, in one way or another.

Mine first, then any order will do, sweets...

In this biz, I'd do last in first out.... but I always would clear out the queue, in one way or another. Originally Posted by fun2come

Mine first then you go to the last and work your way up

I reply to everything especially PMs!! Its rude not to even if its to say, "I'm sorry I missed your PM." I even answer texts. I do not return phone calls from numbers that I don't know unless a message is left. Common courtesy goes a long way!! Originally Posted by Jessie Austin

I answer all texts, emails and PMs, but don't like to return phone calls because I've ended up with a wife on the other end. If someone calls and gets my VM it says for the person to try again, not that I will return the call.

So im a little confused by the subject. Many are mentioning they will only give the provider 1 chance.. does that mean only one chance when you make the first intial contact and you dont get a response or only 1 chance if you try to book with someone for the first time but schedules dont line up?

To me it means: only one chance when you make the first intial contact

So im a little confused by the subject. Many are mentioning they will only give the provider 1 chance.. does that mean only one chance when you make the first intial contact and you dont get a response or only 1 chance if you try to book with someone for the first time but schedules dont line up? Originally Posted by Britttany_love

I cant answer for the rest of the guys, but for me, yes its one and done,, I will send you 2 messages per your methods of contact. Usually a PM and Email so they know I am a real Eccie Member. then I wait.. if nothing back then I move on....

Reasons why they did not get back to me are not my concern. I do not think your TCB is bad, you may out of town or whatever, I find if I do not book with you soon then that urge fades and I move on, the main reason I do not try more than once..

I cant answer for the rest of the guys, but for me, yes its one and done,, I will send you 2 messages per your methods of contact. Usually a PM and Email so they know I am a real Eccie Member. then I wait.. if nothing back then I move on....

Reasons why they did not get back to me are not my concern. I do not think your TCB is bad, you may out of town or whatever, I find if I do not book with you soon then that urge fades and I move on, the main reason I do not try more than once.. Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

So if she is say out of town or whatever and the urge fades and you move on..do you never contact her again when the urge comes back at a a later date?

So if she is say out of town or whatever and the urge fades and you move on..do you never contact her again when the urge comes back at a a later date? Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

This is what im confused about I answer all text messages, emails, private messages and what not but sometimes im not available to book right at that exact minute that they're looking but I do respond and let them know that. Soyou're saying if she's not available see you right then you'll never contact her again?

So if she is say out of town or whatever and the urge fades and you move on..do you never contact her again when the urge comes back at a a later date? Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn

I do not contact them again. the urge came and went, there usually is some reason I had the urge to see her in the first place.,

I am not saying if she is not available right then and there I will not see her, that is never the case.

I will give yall an example which just happened to me in the past month or so:

Nina Venus; had to urge to see her, liked her pics, reviews, price point. I emailed/pm'd her on a Saturday, Her TCB was great, I told her I would like to see her during that coming week and would let her know, she said fine. I pm'd her on a Monday asking if she was around that day or Tuesday, she was sick for the days I wanted. .Lost the urge, have not, nor will I try again.. Nothing against her, its all me...

I do not contact them again. the urge came and went, there usually is some reason I had the urge to see her in the first place.,

I am not saying if she is not available right then and there I will not see her, that is never the case.

I will give yall an example which just happened to me in the past month or so:

Nina Venus; had to urge to see her, liked her pics, reviews, price point. I emailed/pm'd her on a Saturday, Her TCB was great, I told her I would like to see her during that coming week and would let her know, she said fine. I pm'd her on a Monday asking if she was around that day or Tuesday, she was sick for the days I wanted. .Lost the urge, have not, nor will I try again.. Nothing against her, its all me... Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

My example of going the opposite was with Tori of Austin (Tori Capelli) who I wanted to see. Got a few ignores then a NCNS. She made up for it and we actually became personal friends outside the hobby. My persistence paid off in this case.
Another failed attempt was with Zoe Paige. Loved her look. Tried 4-5 times to contact. Got one text response, then crickets. Even tried one more time. Finally gave it up. Now I am two and out. Way too many options to deal with bad TCB or girls so high volume they can't keep up with correspondence. And like u say, right or wring its the way I conduct business now. And this IS business.