Amen the that statement.....I've seen HDH girls that absolutely suck. I got sucked in and bought all the sizzle myself. Only, to be very let down.
I hated myself for days.....literally kicking myself in the ass. Asking myself.....Why did I book with that girl? Why did I spend so much damn money? What the fuck was I thinking?
Originally Posted by Mr Clever
It's not just you. I think most of us have fallen into that trap a time or three. Fortunately, I've not done it lately.
I can't blame a provider for wanting to become a HDH -- who doesn't want to make more money and work less?
But I do wonder about the guys who are on-line and at least somewhat plugged in who patronize this market.
To me, the whole HDH segment reeks of the bad old days of the hobby, before the net enabled hobbyists to share information. The only information many of us had was found in the ads placed by the providers. So we did the logical thing (based on other types of services) and assumed that paying more bought a better experience.
Now we know better. Thousands of reviews have shown us that rate and session quality are not linked. At this point, the only ones who try to maintain this illusion are the higher-priced providers (of course) and the guys who choose to believe in the illusion.
Don't get me wrong. A particular HDH may offer a remarkable experience that has you leaving with a huge smile on your face, anxious to see her again.
But that's a function of who she is, not what she charges. And thanks to boards like this one, we can share the information when we find these jewels -- no matter what their price point.
(Heck, I had a HDH experience a couple of weeks ago with a very sultry brunette, beautiful with a bangin' petite, all-natural body. She's a massage therapist, and her skills are off the charts. The session took place in a nicely furnished bedroom, complete with a comfy queen-sized bed and nice linens. After the session she brought some wine and cheese to snack on while we chatted. What did I pay her? A bit more than her usual massage rate of 60/hr. She was thrilled, as she always is. And no, I'm not sharing her contact information. She wants to stay way UTR.)