What happened to the flowers?

well, BSB is not going to file, but for your edification, here's the math:

assume BSB averages $200 per hobbyist..

there have been 283 days in 2013

she has seen 10,000 guys in 2013 ($2 million/$200)

10,000/283 = approxinately 35... 35 guys per day

BSB sleeps 8 hours a day

24 hours in a day - 8 = hours per day BSB is available to fuck, or 16 hours

16 hours X 60 minutes = minutes per day BSB can fuck, or 960

960/ 35 guys = approximately one guy every 28 minutes, in 2013

conclusion: BSB fucks like a Jack Rabbit!


Originally Posted by Chung Tran

LOL

With 35 men a day, I could open up my own national sperm bank!

I used to fuck like a jack rabbit back in the day when I was young, dumb, and full of cum. Hmm, I think me and my boyfriend fucked 8-10 times a day because it was just something "to do" and it felt good.

Oh, how things have changed...

I always shop for a specific gift for the Provider I've scheduled a visit with. I want to brighten her day and show my appreciation in some way other than tossing some benjamins on the nightstand ... although, me walking out her door might brighten their day too. LOL

It's just how I view being a gentleman hobbyist.

I love to romance a lady as much as I can. It is MY fantasy, and a part of it is the pleasure that I HAVE to romance a girl I am fond of.

It is not real love, it is not "pretty woman" the movie, but it is MY fantasy.

Romancing her makes ME feel good. It's the way I'm built, the way I was brought up. I will never treat a woman like a sex object. Doing so would violate my values.

There is many ways to romance a woman, attitude is probably the biggest. I don't normally bring flowers or anything. With my ATF I try to bring wine so I don't abuse her generosity (when I don't bring wine, she opens one of her own). But I always romance them, I make them feel special, because, to me they are special.

This is a great topic. I typically bring gifts. They have ranged from laptops, to wine to cash and everything in between. I will not give them out every time I see a lady because I don't want it to become expected.

I think one of the most fun gifts was a tool set, how to fix it book and some Egyptian Cotton sheet for a lady who just got a new incall. To this day, I smile because I know she appreciated it and I know she kept them.

As for all the other ladies in this thread...

Jules - just for starting this thread, I will buy you something nice and bring it to Dallas next week when I come for work. We can arrange a time and you can pick it up..no date required....just because it is nice to here someone that appreciates romance.

~Ze~, when I see you...I will teach you an amazing card trick that will freak you out.

BSB - next semester, pm me the name of a book and I will get it for you. Unless you make 2 million, then I will pm you the name of a book I want.

Mya, Honey, Reese, Kaylee, AutumnSpring and Dallas Rain....you ladies, I will need to think about a little. I never repeat a gift but, I am sure I can think of something fun you each of you.

Thank you all for making me smile....nice that some people appreciate the little stuff. (a lucky for me...lol)

Guys - If you believe in doing this stuff, I tip my hat to you. If not, I wish you the best of luck out there.

Adabear

Top that shit ^^^^, tony.....

Top that shit ^^^^, tony..... Originally Posted by eccienewbie

no shit, right

It is nice to see so many ladies in this thread who are also on my wish list. I may not hobby long enough to get around to them all but I'm going to try. Those who sincerely appreciate a nice gesture without expecting it have the GFE attitude that eludes many.

Great thread Jules. And Adabear made some very gentlemanly offers. I salute you, sir.

When I was hobbying 10 +/- years ago, I usually brought flowers, even if it was the first meeting. I always thought it would relieve a little apprehension a provider may have with me. The ladies did seem to appreciate the jester.

I was reading the thread about bringing drinks into session and it got me to thinking...

The hobby has changed a lot even in the last few years since I have been around.

Long gone are the days when my incall was filled with fresh flowers from clients. Hell I used to have more flowers than I had vases for.

I remember when I first started, Even on BP Guys would almost always bring a small and thoughtful gift whether it would be flowers, candy, a bottle of wine, a nice thoughtful card, or a gift card. Some would actually take the time to read my showcase to see what my likes or dislikes were or remembered something I mentioned during session, and bring something that would make me smile big.

Receiving those little gifts would always make me feel awesome. Yes they were not expensive gifts all the time but the fact that they did something to make me feel special was all that mattered to me.

I have talked to a few other providers about this and they all have said that those days are long gone for them also...

I am just wondering what happened to the romance part of this hobby?? Where have all the BFE guys gone? Did ungrateful providers ruin it for the rest of us??

By no means am I saying this is a requirement or saying that I am disappointed if someone does not bring anything. I am just saying that that used to be one of my favorite parts of the hobby. Every woman loves to feel special even if it is for an hour at a time Originally Posted by Jules Jaguar

Very well said, Jules. Nothing really to ad. I miss the good old days myself. Only a couple of years ago, I never opened my door without the happy feeling that I was meeting a good friend who wanted me to feel as special as I wanted him to feel.

Romance is my favorite thing in the whole world!

I can honestly say that I have the best friends in the hobby in Dallas. I have been spoiled rotten and it's all because you guys love the romance factor as much as I do.

Great thread Jules! Originally Posted by Reese Foster

Hurry your ass back and I will give you some ROMANCE!!!

BIG FUCKING DITTO!!!!!

Plus. OMG, HOT avatar alert!

*purvs reese* Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Agreed Ze!!!
Reese is looking Fabulous!!!

Most of the time I leave a thank you card / note. Flowers are a bit too attention attracting to carry around. My ATFs are going to be well remembered at Christmas and that's all I'm saying.

I did have a lady recently give me a small gift. It sits in my desk at work with other things I've been given.

Yes many of you ladies deserve better. I too will try to be better. Originally Posted by pfmtony

Best. Card. Ever!
Better than the one I broadcast on my Showcase and Website!!!
....Unicorn Tears Yo!!!

Until last year I kept a nightstand drawer with all my greeting cards. I effing LOVED getting those. It showed me the giver paid attention to something small on my site. A sign of someone who will pay attention to my needs in bed.

I moved, and just didn't have the place for a box of em. Sorry fellas. Just gunna have to give me new ones.

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Best. Card. Ever!
Better than the one I broadcast on my Showcase and Website!!!
....Unicorn Tears Yo!!!


Originally Posted by berkleigh

EN and my other fans. I'm not trying to top anyone. I'm just Tony, and I do okay all on my own....... I'm just some guy.

I do love that you guys are always thinking about me though. It's flattering. Its like watching destitute kids in a 3rd world country follow sailors around hoping to get a few $$ or candy.

I bring horse crackers and Whataburger ketchup.

If the ladies would post taint more gifts would appear.

Until last year I kept a nightstand drawer with all my greeting cards. I effing LOVED getting those. It showed me the giver paid attention to something small on my site. A sign of someone who will pay attention to my needs in bed. Originally Posted by ~Ze~

It really surprised me to learn that ladies kept the gift cards. I thought these would hit the trash long before the flowers did, but you are not alone in your card collection. Note to self: the effort in selecting a card is noticed.

I bring horse crackers and Whataburger ketchup.

If the ladies would post taint more gifts would appear. Originally Posted by pyramider

I'm sure many think you are just being funny, but I have seen the rather large bag of Whataburger ketchup, the spicy variety if memory serves. When shown to me, it was described as one of the most thoughtful gifts she had ever received, though she would not say who it was from. Miss that girl!

Its like watching destitute kids in a 3rd world country follow sailors around hoping to get a few $$ or candy. Originally Posted by pfmtony

Leave the kids out of this. Having been that sailor, I can tell you those kids have more strength, courage and will to live than you will ever know.