Those who've met me at my incall know what it is that I collect & is something of great importance/meaning in my life that represent who I am as a woman.
And one of those sweethearts, has taken the time to *make* me various gifts that represent what I collect. Those gifts are all beautiful & unique in their own way and mean more to me than a benji ever would.
And there's another sweetheart, who takes the time to; again, *make* me some of his homemade cactus jam. (amazing!)
I love & cherish the *gifts* the men either buy or make for me. They took the time as Old-T said, they took the time to do something from the heart. That alone says a lot about those men.
But that doesn't discount those that don't buy or make gifts.
I see the major difference is the time/effort it takes to pick an appropriate gift. In my mind it says "Not only are you worth a little more money for who you are and what you have done, but you worth my investing my time. I took the time to listen, read, and do MY homework about you.
Originally Posted by Old-T
