If I'm eating/fucking it I don't care as long as it's clean. Stubble on girls who shave can get pokey but honestly pussy is so fucking delicious i power through lol.
I prefer my own bald but with a little patch on top so I don't look like a kid. I don't like hair anywhere near my clit or vag/ass hole because it feels so fucking awesome when fingers
toys slide in and out without any additional friction from hair or stubble. I stay wet forever that way.