Then you don't know many women.
I work with extremely successful professional women all the time. And I can assure you that none of them want to go back to having no choices other than being a housewife, which, whether you realize it or not, seems to be the state of affairs that ya'll are advocating. I've got one daughter in law school and a step daughter equivalent who is deciding on which med school to attend. And neither has the least interest in being just a housewife or giving up her profession to stay at home.
Frankly, this entire discussion is stomach turning to me. And shocking.
Originally Posted by TexTushHog
I think you're turning her statement into something it is not. She didn't advocate no choices, she simply said she doesn't know why they would make such a choice. But changing the nature of another's statement is a typical lawyer's trick...and only effective on the uninformed. The narrowmindness of the elite, is no different than the narrowmindedness the elite tries to portray upon others.
For my mind, the woman who knows and appreciates the service that I endeavor to do for her, is more likely to be the woman I want to serve. Likewise, the woman who desires to be a service to me, is more likely to be the woman I would wish to have serve me. It is, afterall, our service to one another that builds the strong relationship.
Those women who choose to serve otherwise, should be free to do so...and reap the rewards (and responsibilities) of that choice. I think Ansley's original post (and NB's and other's that follow) just is adding food for thought that maybe there are some women who think that is a poor choice. And for many of us men, we'd rather choose our mates from those women who believe such as her.
I'm not sure why that is stomach turning and shocking. Unless, of course, you simply don't have the stomach for views other than your own.