I've always been curious about tantric sex. From what I've heard the orgasism alone are earth moving. Hell I pass on msog if I had one huge O that would leave me in a state of bliss.
Originally Posted by rrabbit6926
Tantric sex is very special and requires preparation on both partners. Each time I have requests from couples, they expect to get "there" without bothering to learn the techniques necessary for this. Unfortunately, very few people want to learn. We live in a society of instant gratification, so it's the same with Tantra, most people/couples expect a magic pill to get there in the first try.
Regularly, sexual energy stays in the genitals area and moves down the legs. This makes the connection between partners more of a "body-to-body" and "mundane" experience.
In Tantra, the couple starts doing specific breathing techniques both syncronized and alternating the breathing (depending on the time). Then there are a few tantra rituals that can be implemented, all of them geared to increase the erotic moment and
open the heart. This is the key of Tantric sex, to have an open heart. Generally the next step is to do any of the rituals associated with yab yum position (the woman on the man's lap, both leg crossed), and from there proceed with other breathing techniques which move the sexual energy from the genitals to the heart.
Sex can be seen but love can only be experienced. When you move the sexual energy to the heart, sex mixes with love and becomes "Sacred and Tantric". Tantra sex is heart to heart and soul to soul connection.
I'd say if you have the determination and patience to learn the breathing and rituals, go for it. Tantra can give both men and women the most amazing orgasms and a different realm of consciousness.
PM me if you want to find a good school to learn all this.