Ever Fallen For Your Provider Or Client ?

No!! It's not me!!.....Damn it!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

What I meant to say that it was not me....anymore!!!

Lmfao. I have two cars and a valid driver's license. I don't need a "driver".
He is pure awesomeness. That's all there is to know and Edhighlight has met him hehehe .

Met him - liked him a lot - now I hate him!! In that order!!!

LOL! But we can always role play boyfriend and girlfriend Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Role play?? You know I don't play....you're just trying to get me jealous!! It's working like a charm!!

I fell for a client once... Didn't end well unfortunately

I fell for a client once... Didn't end well unfortunately Originally Posted by Valerie

Valerie!!! Is it a coincidence that Zarnomi has dumped me for a new boyfriend and now you show up to post of your unfortunate client relationship??......hmmmm.... I think not....You know where to find me sweetness!!

Valerie!!! Is it a coincidence that Zarnomi has dumped me for a new boyfriend and now you show up to post of your unfortunate client relationship??......hmmmm.... I think not....You know where to find me sweetness!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

LOL Ed...well it was a while back, nothing recent I'm afraid

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Role play?? You know I don't play....you're just trying to get me jealous!! It's working like a charm!! Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

He says hi btw

I'm thinking this topic coincides with my Topic Post ' The GFE Myth' Doesnt work?
While everyone there said they do not fall for providers unless they are stupid, and likewise providers don't fall for clients, obviously it's not all that 'separate' and Clear as we'd like to believe by these postings.
I BELIEVE it's a fools endeavor, and a BIG LIE to ever think you can have a real relationship with a former client, and HE IS also lying to himself, in that particular way a man does, when he LOSES HIS MIND, as they do from time to time, in Mid-life crisis or some other ridiculous story.
You can never trust him and he can never trust you. It's a bad start and almost always, if not always, because I've never seen a good one, a bad finish.
These clients sold each other out in the SWC scandal. All it took was to STFU, but they could not manage it. They bought their way out by turning each other in. Man on Man, imagine if you are the Female hooker/lover, mistress! Ha!
This is a business. Falling in love is not an option.

About one half of Civilian Relationships end badly, (divorce), so why should a relationship which originates in the Hobby be any different.

Enjoy the moment and have fun. It will end.

About one half of Civilian Relationships end badly, (divorce), so why should a relationship which originates in the Hobby be any different.

Enjoy the moment and have fun. It will end. Originally Posted by Jackie S

Completely agree. The numbers I keep seeing say half the marriages end in divorce. If you look at "serious relationships" it's far bigger than that.

About one half of Civilian Relationships end badly, (divorce), so why should a relationship which originates in the Hobby be any different.

Enjoy the moment and have fun. It will end. Originally Posted by Jackie S

Completely agree. The numbers I keep seeing say half the marriages end in divorce. If you look at "serious relationships" it's far bigger than that. Originally Posted by Old-T

Exactly. That is why I think we shouldn't look at this thing in a bad way. Ok so what that half of marriages end up in divorce. Does that mean we shouldn't marry anymore? We should ignore love/our hearts because of statistics...really? Two people in the hobby can most definitely make it work. One of my girlfriends (She is a provider) married a client of hers and they are very happy. Relationships work because TWO people want it to work. It's a two way street - not just one.
One of my favorite quotes: "Relationships fail because people change and forget to tell each other." Lack of communication will kill a relationship in the blink of an eye.

IMHO, This isn't the place to ask for relationship advice or ask if a client/provider relationship will work. Over 80% of the men on this board are unhappy with their relationships so of course they're going to say "Oh no it's a bad idea. it will not work". It's like a sex addict asking if he needs help here on eccie, of course .. the goal here is to penetrate as many vaginas as you can. So I am not shocked at the replies on this thread lol. All I know is that last year, I would have been totally against all this. Now I am not . And umm.. please you guys don't flame me. I'm in a good mood today.

Let's all think positive and let things happen.

xoxoxoxo,
Zarah

Exactly. That is why I think we shouldn't look at this thing in a bad way. Ok so what that half of marriages end up in divorce. Does that mean we shouldn't marry anymore? We should ignore love/our hearts because of statistics...really? Two people in the hobby can most definitely make it work. One of my girlfriends (She is a provider) married a client of hers and they are very happy. Relationships work because TWO people want it to work. Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Amen! Too many of the "horror stories" people reference here are because ONE person tries to make it a relationship when the other is seeking something very different.

This isn't the place to look for a relationship, but being blind when it comes along--and denying the possibility--is just as foolish.

Enjoy the relationships that develop--be they for an hour of for years. Be they friendship or romance.

Amen! Too many of the "horror stories" people reference here are because ONE person tries to make it a relationship when the other is seeking something very different.

This isn't the place to look for a relationship, but being blind when it comes along--and denying the possibility--is just as foolish.

Enjoy the relationships that develop--be they for an hour of for years. Be they friendship or romance. Originally Posted by Old-T

+ 1 As always the wiseman (Old T) has spoken the truth

Relationships can develop but meeting here makes it really complicated and the odds are against you if you seek something serious.

+1 with Jackie too. Just have fun!

All I know is that last year, I would have been totally against all this. Now I am not . And umm.. please you guys don't flame me. I'm in a good mood today.

Let's all think positive and let things happen.

xoxoxoxo,
Zarah Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

I won't flame you. Well, I'll be HONEST! I'm NOT happy. No haterade here. I'm happy for you BUT not HAPPY! (jk)

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What? What was that? Don't hate? I'm not hating . I'm happy for Z!!! . No, I really am . Man, I thought you were BIGGER than this. You disappoint. Shsssst. Come here, I want to tell you sometin' . That lucky muthafu ...(Hey, your 'privates' are showing, shhhhh). That......Damnit!!! Shssssst. [end]

What I stated earlier was in general. As part of the Human make-up, we are designed to evolve to survive (in this case Succeed)! I wish you the best. I'm still e-flirting with you though, regardless. So, I hope that's cool. If not, lmk. Muahs!

Amen! Too many of the "horror stories" people reference here are because ONE person tries to make it a relationship when the other is seeking something very different. Originally Posted by Old-T

Agreed!!!

This isn't the place to look for a relationship, but being blind when it comes along--and denying the possibility--is just as foolish.

Enjoy the relationships that develop--be they for an hour of for years. Be they friendship or romance.

Exactly

I won't flame you. Well, I'll be HONEST! I'm NOT happy. No haterade here. I'm happy for you BUT not HAPPY! (jk)

[start]
What? What was that? Don't hate? I'm not hating . I'm happy for Z!!! . No, I really am . Man, I thought you were BIGGER than this. You disappoint. Shsssst. Come here, I want to tell you sometin' . That lucky muthafu ...(Hey, your 'privates' are showing, shhhhh). That......Damnit!!! Shssssst. [end]

What I stated earlier was in general. As part of the Human make-up, we are designed to evolve to survive (in this case Succeed)! I wish you the best. I'm still e-flirting with you though, regardless. So, I hope that's cool. If not, lmk. Muahs!

Originally Posted by mijo(BFE)

lol Muahs, Mijo.
It's cool.

The one truth is there are no absolutes in relationships with a provider. You cannot say they never work because some do. You can't say its a good idea because that is not the primary objective here. I agree with Old-T, take what you can get and enjoy it. Life is short so enjoy the moments.